(Closed) Please help….wedding doubts!

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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8738 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

@louby:  This is NOT ok.

He cannot treat you like this.

He needs some anger management counseling and you need to get away to a safe place for a while.

Can you just stay with your mom for a bit?

Put the wedding on hold. Let him know that unless he gets help for his issues and the both of you go to couples counseling together then the wedding is off completely. 

You need to protect yourself, he has now turned physically violent to you and things will only get worse from here.

Post # 4
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114 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Leave. I’m sorry, but it will only get worse. You deserve to be treated well. He has a temper, he has bitten you, for Heaven’s sake. Please take care and listen to your gut. We’ve been given instincts for a reason- to tell us what to do when our heads or hearts try to take us away from what we know deep down inside!

Post # 5
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1297 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Your first concern is your safety, not anything else. Not money, not what people will think. This is going in a very bad direction.

Post # 6
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17 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Take it from someone who knows… It NEVER gets better, it only gets worse. I say don’t walk – RUN! My ex actually came to my house and attacked me over a year after we were separated and I had to get a restraining order. I left him because he was controlling and had finally gotten physical with me. My son was 4 at the time. I didn’t call the police that first time because of my son, I just left, but I should have done it the VERY first time.

Post # 7
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1471 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

This will only get worse, I think he knows the wedding is around the corner and is starting to show his true colors…. 🙁 dont waist anymore time, get out of there, or get him out, you need to protect yourself and move on!

Post # 8
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1279 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

Wait – he bit you?! Oh Honey, please think about your personal well being. That is very disturbing to me – no one deserves to be treated that way.

Post # 9
Member
886 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

It could be drugs. It could be alcohol. It could be some sort of mental illness. It could just be his abusive personality finally shining through. Either way, too many red flags here to count. Money is money. Your life could be in your hands here. Please save yourself. Good luck!

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