Please let me vent!! Annoying BIL family under my roof

posted 2 years ago in Married Life
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Sugar bee

I will tell you the same thing I told my fiance.His family lives in another province. His brother bought a house with his grandmother( she payed some of the downpayment but does not pay the mortgage0.She has dementia and needs daily care. The uncle also lives there , does not work hasn’t in many years,lives rent free and takes care of the Grandma and gets govnt assistance to do so.

His brother calls about a year ago, he has a gf and the uncle does not want the GF to come over. I told him to tell his brother that if the uncle does not contribute why does he get to control if the brother has his gf over at his house that he pays for??

Things got so bad the brother has moved out of the home but still pays all the bills on top of paying for a second place to live. He finally after more than a year like this has decided to sell the house.

I told my fiance that this wasn’t a good idea to live with family in a situation like this. That his brother should buy his own house , the grandma should go to a long term care home, and the uncle should get a job and work like the rest of us instead of living off everyone.

I think you should either ask everyone to leave who is causing distress or sell the house and buy another one that has only ever been yours

 

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