Post # 1
I just wanted to put up a positive post since the post by she who must not be named…….engagedandnormal.
I am so sorry that some women feel the need to put others down to make themselves feel better.
I am truly sorry for all of the wonderful bees who have decided to not participate anymore. They were GREAT support and inspiration. I hope that all of the other bees that are left will stick together and not let ONE person ruin our sisterhood.
I love you bees and I will NOT be going anywhere!!!
Post # 3
🙂 Thanks for this post, girl. I hope most waiting bees realize that most of the other bees feel positively about the waiting bees and that a few bad apples spoiled something really awesome. We’ll make it!
Edit: GIRLS! ENOUGH! This thread needs to die. This is absolutely ridiculous.
Post # 4
playing devil’s advocate- I think engagedandnormal is entitled to her opinion. She shouldn’t be crucified for being honest. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion.
I’d rather be part of a community that was honest and brought forth different view points for discussion, rather than one where everyone was the same or pretended to feel the same on all topics.
Post # 5
Look, yes there are some who did not agree with my post and that is fine. My placement for it was wrong. got it.
But it wasn’t to put others down, it was to express my opinion that to me and at least 20 others on here the waiting posts and drama of them are annoying.
Seriously. the non stop posting about it and being huge drama queens just proves the point more. By the way certain people are responding by:
1.making threads to claim they are leaving, only to be begged to stay,
2.making threads to proclaim their love for waiting treads
3.acting so very insulted and defensive
just makes more drama and clogs up the forum. Grow up. You don’t agree? FINE. Awesome, then move on to the next thread. Act like an adult who is capable of realizing this is the internet.
I have already apologized for posting in the wrong thread. No need to act like children more.
Post # 7
I agree with Jacqui. And I think it’s time to lay this to rest.
Post # 8
*wishing I could say what I would say in real life without getting kicked off of weddingbee permanently*
Post # 9
Like my mother taught me, if you dont have anything nice to say then dont say anything at all.
Thats all I have to say.
Post # 10
@ engagedandnormal -Wow Girl…. I think you said it yourself.
engagedandnormal: “Grow up. You don’t agree? FINE. Awesome, then move on to the next thread. Act like an adult who si capable of realizing this is the internet.”
Practice What You Preach.
Post # 11
Is that lady for real! LOL
She makes me laugh…….
Post # 12
Ladies, I wasn’t even involved in this last night…but definitely time to move on. I went on to catch up on invites/venues/dresses this morning and was bombarded with drama. In fact, I can barely remember reading anything about actual weddings this morning.
Everyone said what they wanted to say, to the tune of at least two threads being closed. Let’s end it.
Post # 13
@lolaj and Lacylust- you can’t call her out by name and expect her to not respond.
Post # 14
Nobody is not wanting her to repsond that was my reason for calling her out by name. I wanted a response, hellooooo.
Ladies, I’m done.
This is childish.
Post # 15
E&N: My thoughts for you are this. If you don’t enjoy a certain thread or board, then simply don’t go there.
Post # 16
There is always one out there who doesn’t understand wedding obsession. Kudos for them
That being said, nobody should feel like they have to leave because of one person’s comments. If that were the case, I’d have left a long time ago.
I love watching waiting bees graduate. It’s fun and brings back memories