(Closed) Please, no more push back!

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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3525 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

I’ve seen all-baby’s breath arrangements and they are GORGEOUS. Not too boring at all! At the end of the day, you have to be happy with the flowers, and if your FMIL can’t live with that? Maybe it’s time to find someone else to do them. Sorry she’s being a pain.

Post # 4
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2512 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Maybe you can ask FI to throw a little “ohheavenlyday said that she really liked so and so and I was thinking I just LOVE it too. Do you like it MOOOOOM” and emphasize on the mom part so that she feels like she SHOULD like it.

You know what I mean? A little son manipulation …

Post # 6
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2695 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

I’m sorry she’s being like this with you. You should address it with her and then if it doesn’t change at the end of the day decide if saving some money is really worth not getting what you want.

Post # 7
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10367 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

This is why you don’t let family be vendors. It’s just asking for trouble!

Post # 9
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838 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@ohheavenlyday: I honestly just wouldnt tell her what you decide upon. If she persists on asking,tell her and then if she comments on it, I would be quite blunt and simply say “I appreciate your thoughts but my FI and I have made our decision and this is how it is goin to be. If you dont think you could do it….” and wait for her to respond.

The catty biatch in me says to tell her “your arrangin them,not deciding them!shut up and get arrangin woman!”

but then Im a bit blunt like that lol

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