(Closed) please read i might have a crazy bridesmaid

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Sounds tough. If I were in your shoes, and you were absolutely positive that she’d say something negative again, I wouldn’t have her as a BM. Of course it’ll be awkward with her husband as a GM, but then he sounds a lot more fun to be around than her. Do you think she really wants to be a BM, or just wants to criticize?

Either way; she’s going to say something. I say spare yourself the annoyance and possible pain she’d be as a BM and choose the friend you’ve known longer. 

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Whether your FI has the guy as a GM is completely independent of whether you have this friend as a BM—you don’t need to select her just so your FI can have her husband in his bridal party.

It sounds like she’s just too stressful to have around you on your wedding day. Do you really trust this person to focus on you, help you out and do what needs to be done for you on your day? If not, don’t pick her.

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