- 3 years ago
So after he was starting arguments over nitpicky things, SO expressed fading feelings and we have had two not so good convos since — the last was on Saturday. It ended with him telling me he isn’t “abandoning” me and that he would let me know when he has free time so I could see him; etc. Two days before that he texted to tell me he wanted me to know he’s not giving up and that I don’t deserve to be hurt, even unintentionally. Despite those ending words, however, I have not heard from him since Saturday. ..and I have the feeling he’s angry. He has a tendency to cut people off when he’s angry and now I’m wondering if that’s what he’s doing to me. I was trying to give space, but I have the strong urge to text or call him and let him know how much this situation IS hurting me and ask him if this is how I deserve for things to end. ..with him just not talking to me. Everyone keeps telling me to give him at least a week of no contact, but I feel that’s playing games? I want him to know he’s doing exactly the thing he said he’d never do. We haven’t even talked face to face since he said his feelings were fading last monday. Help!