Please take me off the waiting list, I don't want to wait

posted 3 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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523 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

I think that’s an awesome way to go about it. You guys have 10 years together, it’s extremely hard to just get up and walk away so it’s smart to wait until your lease is up to get your own place. I hope it works out by the summer! 

Post # 4
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3960 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

@AirLaw:   Good for you!!  🙂   You deserve the very best!!

Post # 5
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356 posts
Helper bee

@AirLaw:  Good for you! Maybe distancing yourself will make him realize that he does want that commitment.

Post # 6
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243 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

@AirLaw:  I’m proud of you! That’s a very mature way to approach it 🙂 Best of luck to you.

@Katie918:  +1!!

Post # 7
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2892 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

@AirLaw: That’s awesome! Good for you and I hope you never stop living your life for you — in or out of a relationship.

Hopefully, rents don’t increase too too much if you end up looking 6 months or so from now!

Post # 8
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143 posts
Blushing bee

@AirLaw:  

Good for you! I hope it works out for the best no matter what happens. x

Post # 9
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869 posts
Busy bee

@AirLaw:  you should be proud of yourself, I firmly believe that sometimes in life, we have to be our own hero, and not be afraid to make the hard decisions.  You are doing all of this. Kudos to you!

Post # 11
Member
140 posts
Blushing bee

I am really impressed with the mature and level headed way you are viewing and handling this situation.  No threats, whining, or accuations, you are simply doing what you need to do for YOU. Your SO clearly has a special lady in his life. I hope all goes well in the end.

Post # 12
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748 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@AirLaw:  Good for you! 10 years is damn long enough. Pressuring him too much, lol! Men.

Post # 13
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7286 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Great for you. You can’t be passive in life, sometimes you have to take a position that’s best for you.

 

Post # 14
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889 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

Good for you!  I started to seriously stress myself out hoping for a proposal at 9 years and am ashamed to say I went a little crazy for a moment there…it almost broke us but I finally saw sense and stopped putting so much pressure on us both. I realised he was the man for me no matter what, marriage or no marriage, and that I would rather be unmarried to the love of my life than married to anyone else –  I got rid of the mental timeline,  took time away from WB, stopped all the obsessing,  stopped talking about it and dropping hints etc and basically just came to terms with the fact that we were never going to get married.

A month later, FI proposed!  

 

Post # 16
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329 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

@AirLaw:  That takes a lot of guts to do that! Everything happens for a reason and maybe this is the start of soemthing new and amazing for you

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