(Closed) Please tell me I'm not alone!

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
Member
563 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

@starz88962:  I think I wrote nearly the same post not too long ago. First, maybe your mom thinks she is protecting you by pointing out their dysfunction rather than her expecting you to help them. Not that Im saying she is helping you, but mothers sometimes think their kids deserve the best and fail to realize that thats why you choose to accept you FI’s proposal, because to you he is the best.

Pay no mind to her. If in your heart of hearts you know this is right and happy and healthy, ignore her. Also, she could be a little jealous of your potential wedding, especially if you are making deicsions without her.

I learned realy quick to make my wedding decisions with my FI and minimize what I tell her about FI’s family.

Hang in there and good luck!!

Post # 4
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301 posts
Helper bee

I’m sorry that your mom is making things so hard on you at the moment. All families are different, with their own unique set of problems and challenges. I’m not engaged yet so I can’t chime in about my mom reacting to that. However, we’ve never seen eye to eye on many things and I don’t feel like she is supportive a lot of the time. 

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