(Closed) Pls Help me………

posted 6 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

Hey there… i understand your concern….. I think the fact that your are a virgin and pure and he is the first will be more than special and that will make him happy on its own….

I suggest getting a nice lingerie in white.. one that you will be comfortable in … set the mood candles, rose petals.. lots and losts of lube (you will need it) …. nice romantic music in the background .. and patience patience patience… to ensure its memorable .. not too painful and that your are relax.. you could even shower before… if you both drink have a glass of wine.. and just take your time and enjoy each…

Post # 4
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1370 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Foreplay, foreplay, foreplay. Also, relax and do not force anything.

Post # 5
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4755 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

ummmmmmmmmmmmm WHAT?

Post # 7
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7293 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

Theres no need to jump the gun. If you have never experienced each other, just enjoy being close and intimate. Don’t rush into something so special and lovely if you don’t even know how your body works etc.

Explore and relax. You goal is to please eachother, not just you please him.

 

 

Post # 9
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I think it’s a case of practice, don’t worry about the first time so much.. first times are usually not that great (due to it hurting the first time, inexperience and the nerves)

But don’t worry, plenty of times to work on it Wink

Post # 10
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2154 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I think this is a great thing to discuss with your partner. You can discuss your expectations, fantasies, questions, and fears with each other – and maybe do some research together. 

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

@spaneshal: Lol, FI cracks everytime I tell him how our first time was not-that-great for me. It’s hard to explain, it’s great in one sense (first time, something new, absolutely romantic) but once you get to the real stuff you realize how the first time wasn’t even close.

 

@brownbunny: Confidence is key, how comfortable you’re with each other’s body and how much you communicate. Talk about it.

Post # 12
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@vmec: <—- what she said….

Post # 13
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7430 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Fellatio typically works. And get yours to.

Post # 15
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

aw. so sweet! not to be gross and I am not at all sarcastic or trying to joke but when I was in college I took a sex ed class and they made us watch “instructional videos” that were NOT porn but actually told you what to do and what to expect, things to try. it wasn’t nasty stuff at all, amusing but not gross…have you thought of going to a sex boutique? classy ones do exist, i am not talking about seedy sex shops at all! There are some where the staff is there to educate you. Oh and though i was no virgin, i went to a pleasure party and learned A LOT! Most info I could do without but maybe your friends could have one, learn a couple of things. hope this somewhat helped;)

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