Plus one wants a plus one (Funny rant)

posted 3 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
1834 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2014


roguehnp2005:  wow, how RUDE! Your wedding isn’t a house party. She can suck it up for a few hours without her gay BFF there to entertain her.

So far we haven’t had anyone request extra plus one, but we did have a distant relative corner us at a family gathering and be all “I’m invited, right? Please invite me! I really want to come! I’ll bring a nice gift!” So. Awkward.

Post # 5
1383 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

I had the opposite situation kind of- my invites just went out- we’re giving FI’s aunt “A”) a plus one and FFIL’s best friend (“J”) a plus one. “A” messaged me to ask me if I gave J a plus one and that she wanted to bring J! Apparently they used to date. I told her she can bring whoever she wants, or not but that we wanted to extend the option of a guest.  But it was kind of awkward- you don’t have to ask me if you can bring another person that’s already invited! And I’m sure not getting involved in any past flame kind of thing!

Post # 6
1028 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

Well she gets points for having majorly big balls, right? lol. I swear the more I read here on the bee the more I’m convinced weddings drive people to do the most bat shit crazy things EVER. A plus one for the plus one… SMDH. Gotta love it!

Post # 7
10748 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2014

Wow! I guess count yourself lucky that she didn’t spring it on you on the wedding day like the poor other bride? This girl is nuts. 

Post # 8
73 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

Tell your groomsman that he needs a new girlfriend.  What a rude jackass!

Post # 10
689 posts
Busy bee

That’s so weird that she is so adamant about bringing her friend if she’s there as a plus one for her BF. Good for you for setting her straight. Hopefully she won’t surprise you at the wedding. 

Post # 11
175 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

roguehnp2005:  Holy cow I have never herd of such a thing before and I read these boards all day long. You should ask the boyfriend/groomsman if the BFF sleeps between them in the hotel room too. LOL

Kutos to you for taking this so well. Dont let her bring him though, thats the rudest thing ever. To the bride, the groom and to the boyfriend. 

Post # 15
1981 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

roguehnp2005:  That is one of the most riddiculous things I have ever read!! Good for you for standing your ground!!!

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