- 7 years ago
- Wedding: April 2013
The MrNumbers’s cousin didn’t invite me to her wedding and I don’t know what to say over it.
MrNumbers and I have been together longer than the bride & groom. She’s very aware that we are engaged. The bride has added me on facebook. We’ve saw each other 5-6 times a year for the last 3 years and yet I wasn’t invited.
My name wasn’t on the save the dates and I casually mentioned it to the bride’s mom one day while we were talking about wedding planning. Her response was “yeah, she forgot to send one to her own grandmother too”. I assumed this would be corrected by the time the invites got here.
It’s an out of state wedding and MrNumbers is saying that he’s not going without me. He wants to include a note saying that he thought it was unacceptable to not include me. Does he just RSVP “No” and assume she knows why? Or should he include a note? I really don’t want this to start drama since our wedding is next.
Also I don’t think money was a deciding factor here, it’s been stated before that her parents are paying for everything and she’s having 250 guests.