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    mcarm6n0    December 5, 2009   Dominican Republic

    I have 5 bridesmaids, one of which is a plus size.

     She has shared with me that she truly doesn't care what she wears, with the only exception that she wears a dress wtih straps ( she has severe acne on her back).

     I'm having a destination wedding, and the dress I'm choosing is chiffon, but now I'm having second thoughts that it may make her look preggers, b/c its an empire waist.

     Any thoughts how to approach the subject?  i saw on other posts that halter is flattering on plus size, but I can't do that b/c of the acne on her back!  I saw another post that suggested asking my BM what styles would she feel comfortable in?

     Thoughts, suggestions are welcome!

     
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    mklove    April 24, 2009   Exton, Pa

    I also had a plus sized BM.  We stayed away from empire waist because it is not a chubby girls friend.  We found her dress at Davids.  The ones that looked the best on her were the ones that were fitted through the middle with some ruching.  I thought the best way to find out what worked was to let her try on different styles and see what she liked best.  I also did not have the same dress for each girl.  They were each able to pick out a style that worked best for them.  I don't know if that is an option for you, but it worked for me. 

     
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    beachwedding92509    09/25/2009   Southwest Michigan

    I have two plus sized bridesmaids, and to make everyone more comfortable, each woman is wearing a different gown in the same fabric and color. One of my bridesmaid's upper body is very disproportionate to her lower body, so she chose a dress with more coverage on the bodice to compensate and the dress looks nice on her. I would suggest David's Bridal. They have a few selections in chiffon--that's the fabric I selected as well.

     
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    Chela429    3/29/09   Long Island, NY

    I did the same as beachwedding, I'm a bridesmaid in my SIL's wedding and she is thankfully doing the same!

     
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    April.H       Kansas

    Something that cinches in the middle!

     

     
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    dorsay    August 2009  

    Could she serach for a dress that she feels comfortable with? You could let her know the color and material you'd prefer and she could search from there - less for you to do!

     
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    Amber1279    09-12-09   Arizona

    as a plus size girl ... it really depends on her body shape.  Where does she carry her weight?  If she is a pear shape and the weight is around her hips/thighs the empire could work. 

    I for one could not where the styles with the fitted middle and the "ruching" it drew the eye to my worst part.

    I say take her shopping & try some on.  David's Bridal has plenty of larger sizes in different styles.

     

    Oh - and halters can be BAD for plus size.  They dig into my neck.  

     
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    happilywaiting       Massachusetts

    I agree with Amber. Different styles can look different depending on your body shape. I used to be a size 18 so I can totally relate, I never liked halter tops because of the "digging in" as well as I felt they made my shoulders look like a linebacker.
    Chiffon is definitely a good choice for fabric. Plus something your BM can wear a regular bra under is a must. It's hard enough finding a good fitting regular bra, but trying to find something to go with a halter top etc can be a nightmare (and not just for PS women).

     

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