plz advice on my relation with bf

posted 3 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2013

I’m having a really hard time following what you’re trying to write here… but it sounds like you both having some growing up to do, different priorities, etc.

Maybe give it some more time and I am not sure if you actually broke up with him or not.. but if you did, it’s probably best to be away from a guy who has such anger issues.

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

Ok…he sounds like a classic abuser. I think you are well rid of him and deserve better.

Post # 5
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Busy bee

@helpval:  I’m really confused… you’ve been dating for 3 years and you’re long distance and have only met 3-4 times?  My advice would be to either get to know each other better in person or to find a new man closer to home…

Post # 6
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Bumble bee

You need to break up with him and never see him again.

Post # 7
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

Yup he sounds abusive, so I’d say so far you’re lucky he’s on the other end of the phone and not the other end of the room. This is just a bad situation all around and you deserve a lot better than this.

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@helpval:  Woah. Sounds like you need to leave him… or take a break… This sounds exausting and I am exausted for you after reading your post

Post # 10
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2012

@helpval:  he is controlling, manipulative and abusive.  leave him now and don’t look back.  you will never be happy or safe with him.

Post # 11
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@helpval:  There is nothing you can do to make this angry man happy.  He’s going to be mad no matter what!  I’m so glad you called it off and now he will never treat you poorly again!

Post # 12
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

@helpval:  Its not your mistake. He’s a controlling bully and if he is this bad to you long distance he would be a nightmare to be married too. Find someone who treats you kindly with live and respect.

Post # 13
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@helpval:  why on earth would you want to marry a guy who insults you and your family over every little thing that upsets him? Do you want to live this way for the rest of your life and have him treat your children this way too?

Post # 14
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

@helpval:  As the other bees have said, these are all signs of abuse. If you marry him this behaviour will continue and it could get worse. I know it might be upsetting to hear, but please do not marry him. He will make your life very sad. 

 

Post # 16
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

@helpval:  I know it’s upsetting you but this is NOT the only man who will love you 🙂
You deserve to be with someone who makes you feel good and supports you not with someone who makes makes you feel sad.
Also, family support is so important. This relationship sounds like it will only cause you more pain in the future if you continue with it and marry him. I’m so sorry that you’re in this situation!

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