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We have jokingly planned to sneak away for a "quicky" early in the evening so that we can party for the rest of the night.
We'll leave after the reception (just to say we had sex on our wedding night) and meet up with everyone to party some more! haha!
We were EXHAUSTED, but you HAVE to have sex on your wedding night! There's a little thing called consummating the marriage. Ya know-you pick out some sexy bridal-y lingerie, get a gorgeous hotel/honeymoon suite...and you know the rest.
I think my FI will have it annulled in the morning if I refuse sex on our wedding night! lol
I hope we're not too tired. All of my friends say they were, and it was really disappointing that they didn't on their wedding night.
We planned on it and it did happen. We weren't that tired, but did go to bed right after since we had an early morning flight.
You need a maybe option! We want to but we also realize that it may not happen. We are getting married in Lake Tahoe and plan on continuing the party with our guests after the reception at one of the clubs (We want to spend as much time with our guests as possible since we all will be traveling). Hopefully we can sneak away for a little bit before we head to the casinos...
We're most likely not. And we're totally okay with it. We'll be so tired (and relieved!). Besides, we have the honeymoon! :)
Your kidding right? What is the point of getting all prettified, and looking all sexy in your dress, if there's no gratification at the end of the night!? YOU HAVE TO! 
I'm thinking a quickie after dinner, before the party gets wild. Too much alcohol and forget it. And as strange as this may sound, we'll be in Vegas. We can have sex anytime, but it's been a while since we've had a vacation.
I cannot believe some of you said no! Of course we will- hopefully alot!!
We talked about it beforehand and totally planned on it. However, we were WAY too tired when the time came. Instead, we got Mickey D's takeout, opened our cards and crashed!
I voted YES!!! You might think I'm crazy but we haven't had sex because we're trying to wait and not have sex until we're married. (Religious preference.) We both agree that it would be so much more special for us. So...YES...we will. I know I will be tired, but we will find some new energy somewhere.
Yes! We're so looking forward to our mini-moon in San Francisco before moving to Europe. Things have been so hectic around here, planning an elopement and intercontinental move that we both can't wait for some time to do nothing else... but each other ;-)
When I was trying on dresses and sweating within the first 2 minutes, I don't understand how anyone would want to have sex with a disgusting, tired, sweaty me that night! I like the idea of skipping out of your reception early for a little lovin', but Mr. whitesonnet is a partier with partying friends. Maybe I'll try to make it a sexy bath, then sex kinda night!
Ditto to Charm Braclet. We're in the same situation. Atleast our wedding ends around 7:30pm.
Umm...i don't even know if we're gonna wait till NIGHT! For some insane reason, we decided to not have sex w/ each other till our wedding....and that was a back in November (wedding is in February). Let me just say that we'll be lucky if we can wait till after the vows...
I wasn't sure originally whether we would, but when push came to shove, we really wanted to. It was a beautiful, romatic, passion filled time that I couldnt have traded for a few hours sleep!
I'm pretty sure I will be way too exhausted but here's to hoping!
Yooo, some of these comments feel kind of negative, you don't HAVE to have sex on your wedding night... i don't think it's a big deal either way and to be honest, i have a feeling FH and I could end up being too tired/alcohol saturated and just pass out but who knows?....There was another thread on this recently and a bunch of people weren't sure it would happen or felt it wasn't that important...
Man, I sure hope so! As much as I want to hang out with our guests till way late, I hope we aren't too tired!
Planning on it yes, but it's more important to me that we have an amazing time with all of our guests and then get crunk at the after party. That's what the honeymoon's for, right?
I agree with rungurl... I think it's "to each his own". And, until you've been through the whole thing, it's hard to know exactly. how. tired. you'll. be... really!
Heck yeah! even if we are half sleep lol
I'd like to think we will, but I have a feeling that it might not happen. Ha, don't let my FI see this! But I mean...we've been having sex for almost 4 years now, lol. It's not like it will be the first time we've seen each other's special parts. If not, though, I know the honeymoon will make up for anything that doesn't happen on the wedding night. But, I'm definitely going to make a conscious effort to do it on the wedding night. Even if we pass out in the middle of it :)
While I've stated numerous times I probably will be exhausted and fall asleep before we even make it back to the hotel...he is most certain it will happen. We have a loooong flight the next morning and I'm sure I'll have to just catch up on sleep then.
Proooobably TMI, but we did have sex, and we were exhausted. It was far from amazing. :) It was like... well we can't NOT, but MAN, we gotta be up for brunch in like 2 hours! It was more... git' 'er done sex. Hehehe
Isn't that like a rule? It is a must and my man already knows that...haha. What does that say about me?
In Judaism, there's a tradition called Yichud - the bride and groom go into seclusion immediately following the ceremony in order to consummate the marriage. Then you don't have to worry about being too tired from dancing/partying all night. A big dress might make for some difficult access tho ...
We hope that we are not too tired that night but we definitely are planning on it. I cannot imagine my FI not wanting to...
We were exhausted, but we were also excited to consummate our marriage! It's like your'e so tired you're drunk but you still wanna do it!
We definitely plan on it, but I do realize it's going to have been a LONG weekend and extra LONG day. I think we'll be so excited that we will though :)
Tired, schmired! We have the rest of our lives to sleep. We're leaving the reception early to get the real party started!
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