POLL: How many events did you have during your wedding weekend?

posted 2 years ago in Parties
  • poll: How many events did you have at your wedding?
    Ceremony and Reception : (9 votes)
    14 %
    Rehearsal and dinner, Ceremony, and Reception : (36 votes)
    56 %
    Rehearsal and dinner, with reception afterwards, Ceremony, and Reception : (1 votes)
    2 %
    All of the above plus breakfast(s) : (18 votes)
    28 %
  • Post # 2
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    Helper bee

    honeybee2014:  We’re eloping, so it’s just going to be a ceremony!

    Before we decided to elope, though, we were considering having a small, 40-person wedding. We didn’t want a bridal party, so there would’ve been no need for a rehearsal (also, it wouldn’t have been in the budget). For that, we would have just had a ceremony and reception.

    Post # 3
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    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: July 2014

    honeybee2014:  everything but the after party are normal. why would you want a after party the day before your wedding? no you want sleep! as for the brunch the morning after i know a lot of people do a gift opening, although that is usually only family.

    Post # 5
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    194 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: July 2014

    honeybee2014:  Yes you could always bow out. Hey its not on your dollar so might as well do it all! 🙂

    Post # 6
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    228 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    We had rehersal and rehersal dinner, ceremony and reception and then brunch the morning after for gift opening.

    Post # 7
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    2134 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2015

    We’re going to have a rehearsal and dinner with our immediate families and bridal party and then will be meeting up with friends for drinks afterwards. We plan to advertise this “meet and greet” type thing on our wedding website, but it won’t be hosted or anything formal. Then, we have the wedding ceremony and reception (obviously), and will probably have an after party somewhere too, although again, that won’t be hosted – just an opportunity to continue the party. The next morning, we’re hosting a brunch for our OOT guests.

    Post # 8
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    199 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: January 2014

    We did the rehearsal, rehearsal dinner, ceremony, reception and brunch. As a bride I worried so much about having enough wedding weekend events and activities since most ppl were coming in from out of town. I felt bad about not doing an after party but we didn’t have the budget and once everything was said and done I was grateful to be able to relax with my husband after the reception while guests who wanted to keep the party going went out or met at the hotel bar.

    As a frequent wedding attendee now that all of my friends and family memebers have started getting married my feelings have changed. My husband and I use all of our vacation time on weddings and when we go out of town for weddings we look forward to having time to do some sightseeing and experience the place we’re visiting. As a guest I’ve never been dissapointed by too few wedding events…

    Post # 9
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    we had a a rehearsal and dinner (which was just pizza at my parents’ house), ceremony and reception, and the next day we had an indigenous ceremony and brunch for close family and out of towners

    Post # 10
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    8680 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2014

    We are doing the rehearsal, rehearsal dinner/welcome party [some of fi’s family is flying in, so we plan to host them as well] the day before the wedding.

    The day of the wedding we are doing a very small and quick breakfast, but it’s not hosted or anything, we won’t have time for an elaborate meal, then ceremony & reception. No after party.

    And we are doing a “fare well brunch” where we see our out of town guests one last time and go off on our honeymoon. The brunch isn’t hosted though.

    Post # 12
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    720 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    honeybee2014:  We had Rehearsal with dinner the night before the wedding which was a Friday. This included both sets of parents (excluding my mom due to work) and wedding party and their significant others (if they weren’t in the wedding party), Saturday was the Wedding Ceremony and Reception. Before thee wedding, my girls and I spent the morning in my suite getting ready with hair/make up and we had my brother do a Timmies Run for breakfast since we couldn’t leave the room. On the Sunday my inlaws wanted to have an “open house BBQ” which was optional/people could come and go as they pleased. It was mainly family with a couple out of town guests. 

     

    Post # 13
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: February 2015

    We’re having a rehearsal, rehearsal dinner for our parent’s siblings and children (our aunts, uncles, and cousins) and the bridal party (around 50 people), our wedding/reception, and a bagel breakfast the following morning. We’re still hammering out the details of all these events. I want to include more out of town guests into a welcome event, as we’re having an out of town wedding, but venue constraints and budget make that hard!

    Post # 14
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2014

    We did a rehearsal at the venue on the Thursday, then just the bridal party (15 people) and SOs went to dinner at a bar after (we didn’t pay), on Friday my parents hosted an out of town guest party (just for family) which was like a wine and cheese, went from 6pm-9pm. On the wedding day, we had a ceremony and reception and afterparty. On Sunday we had a brunch that was like a no-host, “feel free to join us” breakfast at the hotel. So we had lots of events but they were very low key and we didn’t pay for all of them. 

    Not sure how you will possibly have time to have a family breakfast the morning of the weddinG. I would advise against that. And against having a huge party the night before the wedding for all guests- that seems odd. 

    Post # 15
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

     

    mrsgroomzilla:  I agree with you.  As an often OOT guest, I’ll gladly go to your wedding and reception, and maybe a frew drinks in the hotel, but I would much rather spend some time with my DH in a hotel room the morning after (wink wink) Also, I’m getting too old for after parties. 

    DH had fun hanging out with people at the hotel after the rehersal, and we had a morning after bruch for parents and DH’s aunts and uncles (only four of them) and wedding party, but it wasn’t an every guest thing.  I’m glad about the way it worked out.  I got to sleep before the wedding, and I couldn’t deal with that many people after the wedding. 

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