(Closed) POLL: Opinions needed-should we wait to get engaged?

posted 5 years ago in Waiting
  • poll: Would you wait to get engaged until after sisters wedding?
    Yes, it's your sisters time to shine : (4 votes)
    19 %
    No, share the happiness : (17 votes)
    81 %
  • Post # 3
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    4653 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    Just because your sister is getting married doesnt mean you cant get engaged….

    If my sister got engaged a month before my wedding I would be happy for her! You do not need to put off your engagement because of her wedding!

    Post # 4
    Member
    351 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    This same situation happened to me, but I was in the sister’s recieving end. FI and I got engaged November 19 and my sister got engaged December 31 AND planned her wedding three months before mine. I have to admit, I was a bit upset. But a lot of that stemmed from a shaky relationship to begin with. I just wanted everything to be like how I envisioned it…which we all know nothing ever goes 100% according to plan. I personally feel that if you and your sister have a good relationship, maybe you should bring it up to her and ask. If she seems/acts a bit uneasy, maybe you should wait a bit?

    Post # 5
    Member
    814 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: February 2012

    As long as you don’t get married ON your wedding day (which I’m sure you wouldn’t), it’s fine 🙂

    Post # 6
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    1542 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2015

    Enjoy! Do what is right for you, not for your sister.

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