Post # 1
I feel down and I don’t know why. My cousin came to visit my sister and my sister was telling her about what happened this morning. When my mom asked me to give my little sister a ride to school and I took a moment to think about it. She came in my room yelling at me. What’s up with that and why exactly did she have the urge to tell her that? Well, I told my mom and she told her off for talking about me behind my back. I mean it felt as if she was trying to put my cousin against me or something like that. I’m so sad.
Remember that show Everybody Loves Raymond? Well my real life reality show that I’m in at this time is Everybody Loves Rosalia. (and she loves everybody else but me). It seems like she’s really close to all of my cousins and all of her friends. Which I have like one friend and my cousins don’t really like me probably because I’m too nice? Haters. I always smile and treat them with respect yet they don’t really want to have anything to do with me. What ever I’m getting married and moving away so that means that I will start my own family and make new friends. I wish she would spend more time with me and call or write me more than she does my “cousins” I mean shouldn’t immediate family have more precedence over extended family? For me that’s the case but I guess not everybody feels the same way as I do. So I should just settle with the fact that I can’t control anybody but myself.
There now I’m done feeling sorry for myself. I hope there’s nothing but happiness wow! planning a wedding is sooo stressful.
My sister is great she has paid for the DJ and my invitations. I’m very grateful to her. It’s just that she lives so far away and our relationship has always been a little strained.
Phew! It felt good to let that out!
Edit: I was going to put this on Emotional section (my bad)
Post # 3
we are not in high school anymore, right?
hope you feel better now that you got that off your chest though.
Post # 4
I was a little confused by your post, and to whether it’s your SISTER that upset you or your COUSIN? And if it IS your sister, is it the same sister that you think doesn’t like you, but that paid for your DJ and invitations?
I’m sorry you’re feeling down, and I know what it feels like to try to be nice to people and have them treat you like crap. Just keep being the nice sweet person that you are, and if your cousins don’t like you then they are the ones missing out.
I hope it all works out for you and you can enjoy the rest of your wedding planning! 🙂
@ Aug8Bride – Um. I think your comment about high school was kind of harsh. Obviously the OP is upset… I can’t tell if you are trying to be helpful or something else…?
Post # 5
I am sorry you are feeling left out. I know how it feels to feel like they are the ones left out of family things. I was really close with my family when my Grandpa was terminally ill, I was one of the primary care givers to him when he was dying. Then when I was done with college I moved about an hour away and you would have thought I died. I feel really left out sometimes now and it doesn’t help that it is my Dad’s side and he has never really been a family man so I am always left out of the loop.
We can be loners together:)
Post # 6
I’m with okqueenbee. I’m a little confused too. Can you clarify?
Post # 7
I think I’m just nervous about my wedding and I’m just a bit over sensitive about everything.
I’m just worried that only 3 people out of 80 something family members will show up.
Post # 8
I’m confused also as to wether you are upset with your mom, your sister or your cousin. I’m sure you will have more than 3 out of 80 people at your wedding. But things do come up and sometimes people you really want at your wedding can’t make it.
Post # 9
I was just feeling left out.