Post # 1
I think I have “poor” taste. As in, I do not see the quality in expensive things. For example, today one of my coworkers showed me her wedding shoes. I told her they looked nice but in my head I really did not see anything special about them. She then told me that they are designer and I guess $800. I was BLOWN away. I honestly did not see what made them worth so much.
Another case in point: my friend told me that she bought a purse that was a great deal. I was thinking like $20 or something. She told me that she got it for $300. Looking at the purse prior to her telling me the price I honestly thought it was like $50.
This is not to say I have anything against expensive things. I truly think things look nice if they are $20 or $2000. The shoes and purse are great, they look fantastic, I just cannot tell the difference between “cheaper” and expensive stuff I guess. I just wonder if there are people out there that can look at things and “see” quality.
Anyone else have “poor taste”? I really do think I am blessed because I can live in ignorant bliss that my less expensive stuff looks as good as designer things 🙂
Post # 3
@jeg14: Yes! I certainly do 🙂 I would rather get 10 pairs of $20 shoes than buy a $200 pair of shoes.. because why?? I get TEN pairs and they will probably last the same amount of time all up.. and this way I can change my look every time! A while ago I had a friend buy a weekender tote bag thing from … I dunno… Gucci or Versace or LikeICare and it was about $600. Then she could never travel anywhere with it because she took it one place and the corner got a slight mark on it, so it spent the rest of its days in plastic wrap inside another bag in the closet! What’s the point! Buy a $20 bag and you don’t care if it gets wrecked because you can go get another one! Some people like labels more than practicalities 😉
Post # 4
@jeg14: I wouldn’t say it means poor taste. It’s just different values and preferences. Neither is right or wrong, just different. I don’t own any expensive clothes, purses, shoes, but I still wear and have nice things. I wouldn’t say I have poor taste by any means.
Post # 5
I wouldn’t pay $800 for a pair of shoes either :). I was the same with my wedding dress – I paid $299 for mine, and while I get regular dress envy, I could never justify spending thousands on something I’ll only ever wear once. It’s one thing to buy really good quality pieces which will last for years, but a lot of what you pay for when buying designer goods is the label.
What I would consider when buying is the use to price ratio. For example, if I were to buy a bag or a coat that I expected to wear on a daily basis for years, I would be willing to pay a little extra for something classic and high quality that will last for ages – I figure it works out cheaper overall than buying something cheaper that’s going to fall apart after a few wears or that will be out of fashion next week.
Post # 6
Everyone places a value on things. There is no shoe I would pay $800 for, but I would splurge in other areas maybe others would not (I have a $500 blender). I do not place value on clothing and accessories, but I do on electronics and technology. So, don’t look at it as havign poor taste, just different taste 🙂
Post # 7
@jeg14: Shoes and purses — often not worth the money. Of course many here will disagree.
I think that some classic, old fashioned things such as real, quality cashmere (not the junk you see in department stores) or Italian hand-made shoes custom made for your feet etc may be special and worth some $$$, but what I’ve found is that one has to take care of this special stuff.
It’s not as though they are much sturdier.
I simply do not want to fuss with things. If I soil them or break them, big deal, I’ll get another.
Post # 8
@jeg14: I’m the exact same way. If I do happen to find something that I like that’s designer, it’s because it happened to be super cheap at Marshall’s or Winners, but other than that I can’t justify spending a lot of money on material things.
Post # 9
You could put me blindfolded in a store and I’d somehow manage to find the most expensive thing there. I just have an eye for quality materials/construction. That said, I don’t buy trendy pieces and I only buy once something is on super sale.
Post # 10
I don’t have nice things at all (lol) BUT I know that I have an eye for higher-end things. At TJ Maxx if I’m looking through their zillions of purses, I will invariably choose the ones that are $100-200 (and that’s at TJ Maxx!!). When I’m looking at things on Overstock or Etsy, my eye is almost always drawn to the expensive version of whatever it is that I’m looking for, completely without seeing the prices. It’s a curse!!
Post # 11
@likewoah: We totally posted the same thing at the same time!! 🙂
Post # 12
@FauxPas2012: I’m one of those people that utterly disagree. Cheap shoes almost always have poor ergonomics. Having a good support for your foot ( be they flats or heels) is incredibly imprtant for general health. I’m not saying all expensive shoes are good. But I am saying I haven’t found any cheap shoes to be, and that goes double once we’re talking about heels.
Post # 13
@jeg14: Me too. I can’t tell the difference between designer and Walmart. I actually did a whole thread about coach purses. It was interesting, the responses I got.
Post # 14
@Bridey77: Coach purses are for people who have more money than taste.
edit: which isn’t to say they have much money
Post # 15
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Well sometimes it’s just the designer label makes it more expensive. I used to be the same until dh started spoiling me lol. I’m not for designer labels, so I try to go for quality but even then I usually like the pricier items lol. I don’t think I’d spend 800 on shoes though, but if I really loved them I’d try ebay first hehe.
Post # 16
I wouldn’t spend 800 dollars on shoes or more than 40 or so on a purse.
But I don’t care about shoes or purses as much. I can tell the difference in quality. But my personal rational prefers replacing a purse for 20-30 bucks every year instead of hundreds on one to last a long time. Same with shoes.
However I, like most regular people, can’t afford the best of everything all the time. So I pick and choose based on what’s important to me and where my interests are. I may think 800 on shoes it outrageous. But I’d also probably spend 800 on a dog or a piece of jewelry if I had 800 lying around, so it seems pretty subjective to me in that regard.