(Closed) Positions with less pain and more pleasure?

posted 6 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
4275 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012


Reversed cowgirl also works as you are in more control.

Both of these incorporate the style he likes but more comfortable for you and sometimes more pleasurable.

You can find a book on positions or you can google. Then there is porn…. I am not posting links or getting descriptive here. You can PM if you need to. haha….

If you want to try doggy again, lay down with your pelvis resting on your pillow or keep your legs closed together. This will prevent him from hitting your cervix, which is probably what is hurting you.

Post # 4
1543 posts
Bumble bee

Lube. And if something hurts, don’t do it. If he’s well endowed, certain positions could be painful. Tell him to slow down, and/or change the angle of penetration.

If pain persists no matter what, go see a physician. An underlying condition could be causing the pain.

Post # 6
2065 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

@Cady:  I was going to say this – sounds like he’s hitting your cervix. My husband does that too sometimes in that position just because of the angle. I find it doesn’t hurt when I’m really turned on and we’ve had a lot of build up. If we get to it quick then it hurts a bit.

Post # 8
82 posts
Worker bee

I know exactly what sensation you’re talking about, and i find it helps to be on top and have more control. Otherwise, its lots of painful ‘tearing’ sensations and unhappy sex 🙁

Post # 9
7293 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

I would recommend on top so you can control how fast, far down etc.

Some positions for me are OUCH , unless I’m really warmed up if you catch my drift 😉

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