- 3 years ago
So, the last time I posted about my SO and proposing was when I suspected he had the ring. No update on that (there’s extremely heavy bins right in front of his normal hiding spot, that take 2 people to move) however, he has been acting strangely.
Normally, we’re not a PDA couple. However, I’ve noticed he’s been a lot more touchy-feely. We went to see a comedy show the other night, while we were walking, he was hugging me for no reason from behind anytime we were at a don’t walk signal. Also, at home, he’s just been generally more affectionate, cuddling more at night in bed and such. He’s also been planning more dates. I’m usually the planner for everything, but suddenly he’s actually planning some date nights. It’s like he doesn’t want me to be suspicious when he plans THE BIG date.
Also, when I mention anything wedding related, he no longer says “when I get something more stable (job wise) we can talk more than.” Or “We’ll deal with that when it comes up.” If I voice any concerns about issues with his family, he actually addresses them now and helps me think of potential solutions. I considered doing the SIUP but I asked what he’d think if I suddenly didn’t talk weddings or watch wedding shows, and he said it would scare him and he’d be worried, so not doing that.
Gah, I’m so excited for August! My upcoming trip to Israel is the only thing helping keep my mind off of it. As soon as I step off the return trip home, I’ll be a bundle of nerves.