(Closed) Possible bridesmaid who doesn’t get along with groom or maid of honor?

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
  • poll: Is she in or out of the party?
    yes : (1 votes)
    17 %
    no : (5 votes)
    83 %
    other?? : (0 votes)
  • Post # 3
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    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    Honestly, it’s a toss up.  There’s huge potential for her to cause a lot of unnecessary drama, but she’s also a good friend so she might step up and put aside all her drama with your FI and MOH.  I have no idea what to tell you!

    Post # 4
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    1798 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2011

    Since doesn’t get along with 2 essential people in the wedding party, you’d be inviting a lot of drama by asking her to be a BM. I’d leave her out.

    Post # 5
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    2143 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2015

    Hmm, this is tough because including her in the party seems like it will invite a lot of drama. On the other hand, she’s already going to be pretty involved with your wedding if she’s a close friend and her mom’s also catering the cake, and would probably feel she was purposefully left out. I think you should just ask her if she even wants to be in the bridal party at all, given that she doesn’t get along with the MOH or the groom. Hopefully she says no and the problem is solved.

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