Possible dilemma!

posted 2 years ago in Christian
Post # 2
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Kacey23:  If you tell them you are already sleeping together, living together won’t be nearly as shocking to them.

Post # 3
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2013 - UK

Why do you have to tell anyone? You could always just move in and be done with it!

EDIT: Actually, just curious… but how old are you? I’m guessing you’re quite young, because you are still living with your parents, and didn’t move out to go to university. It does matter because I can understand your parents being protective if you are still a teenager.

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2013 - Valparaiso, IN

Rachel631:  I was 22 and still living with my parents before I got married. My husband was also still living with his parents before we got married. He was 25 at the time. We both went to community college. And our parents were both fine with us continuing to live with them so long as we payed our own bills and stuff. 

 

Post # 5
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I understand how you feel, but I honestly think that a friend who judges you about this isn’t really a great friend. 

Parents, though, are another issue! 🙂 It can be shocking for them to realize their little girl is all grown up, but this is something all parents have to go through. I would just tell them, gently, that you’re going to be living with your boyfriend. Period. There’s really no easy way to do this — my best advice is just to be calm and firm no matter what, and remember that you’re an adult and 100% in control of your life now. 

Post # 6
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2014 - Prague

Are they paying your rent? If not, and if you are financially independent, it’s time to own your decisions. Do what you want.

Post # 7
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

Kacey23:  Lady I am 32 and some of my family was shcoked when me and my now fiancé moved in together. I think one of the biggest life lessons we all learn is to not give two sh*ts what other people have to say. Parentals or otherwise… you are already probably going against what they belive by sleeping together so live your life the best way you know how and not for anyone else. Tlel then you are moving in together.. they will get over

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