- 6 years ago
Okay, so basically SO rarely goes on FB.
There’s an ex (a very short-lived relationship, but a very fit, pretty ex who just oozes “sweet girl you take home to mama”) in SO’s friend list. Normally, I really don’t care. I’m friends with exes of mine, who am I to judge? I am (admittedly) fairly territorial but this isn’t usually something I flip out about.
They dated about 6 months before SO and I met. Very young and naiive (from what he says), she wanted to get married immediately. Just to get married. So…yeah, he got out of that pretty quickly. She found someone to marry, moved out of state and is happily ever after with a baby, supposedly.
This girl, when SO and I started dating, asked to be my FB friend. Over. And over. And Over. At first, she asked and said “hey, he’s a friend of mine! sooo happy 4u!!! can u hav him call me?? he nvr calls any1!!” So I told him, hey, L wants me to have you call her. He gave me a weird look and let it go. Found out she was an ex after she kept pestering me about it (keep in mind, this was a couple of years ago). Unfriended her pretty much immediately after finding out who she was (of course, she never told me until much later, he did). She seemed like a person who was awfully curious about me, what I did, what my hobbies were, just so many questions! Totally weird.
So fast forward to today, she starts posting on his FB (SO has a public profile) things like “hey, every time i hear this song, i think of youuuu!!! makes me smile and remember 🙂 :)” um…this isn’t an isolated incident. I’m not even sure SO notices because his family or I could post something on his wall and he doesn’t see for months!
So…be honest. Does it sound like I’m overreacting for raising my brow just a bit, here? Or does this sound like the green eyed monster rearing his ugly head?!