(Closed) Post-Vacation Update

posted 4 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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1460 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2017 - Bristol zoo

Aww I’m sorry you didn’t get engaged while away, but it sounds like you had a really lovely and romantic time anyway. Your SO really does seem to care for you 😀

 

it can be so hard not to be annoying about these things XD so I wish you all the best, at least April isn’t too far away! It’ll be here before we notice! (I’ve also been counting the days till then so good luck to both of us).

Post # 6
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263 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Sorry it didn’t work out. Try to enjoy the element of surprise.

Yes, I know how unrealistic that sounds, lol.

Post # 7
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1460 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2017 - Bristol zoo

@Creiddylad:  not a timeline as such, our anniversary is April 5th and I’m *trying* to not talk about engagements seriously until around then, since I brought it up seriously for the first time around our last anniversary. Light hearted stuff like ‘I hope our wedding cake is chocolate’ is fine but nothing like ‘so, when you said you had a plan… What does that mean??’ (And a couple of recent off hand comments have made me realise that it’s for sure further away than I hoped). Hurr, it’s like my own SIUP that isn’t very good XD

im glad to hear that you’ve got something more concrete to work with though!

 

but aww, maybe you need to abstain from ring porn for a while 😉

Post # 9
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2146 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

Aww well at least you had a great time :). I know I should be taking my own advice, but one day we’ll think back to this roller coaster of mystery and excitement that our relationships are right now! 

Post # 11
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2146 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

@Creiddylad:  I know exactly what you mean. We went on a mini vacation right after exams and even though he straight up told me not to get my hopes up because it would not be happening during the trip (mostly so I wouldn’t go crazy the whole time with what ifs) I still caught myself thinking “this would be the perfect time, what if he’s proposing!” It can be discouraging at times. Oh well. All in good time. 

Post # 12
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523 posts
Busy bee

@Creiddylad:  I went on vacation last week too (we went to Ithaca in NY)! It was absolutely amazing (tons of hiking!) and even though I knew the proposal wasn’t coming (we haven’t even looked at rings yet) I thought maybe maybe he’d propose.

Next year will be 4 years for us so hopefully it’ll happe then. 

I’m glad that you had a wonderful time at least!!! I think it’s cute that he squeezed your hand!

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