Post-Wedding Blues

posted 4 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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8707 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

@meloncholyMOH:  It happened to me last year when I was MOH. I voiced my opinion and let her know that I did everything I could since I lived over an hour away and travel often for work. We are okay now. I got over it and (I hope) she did too.

Post # 4
Member
132 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Holy cow, seriously?  It sounds like you did half the work for her!  Even if my MOH did nothing up until the day of the wedding I wouldn’t say anything, since the reason I picked her is that I want her standing next to me that day, not because I want to see how much work I can squeeze out of her.

Post # 5
Member
3874 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Have you asked her what she expected you to do? It sounds like you went above and beyond. Maybe there was something specific she expected and didn’t express to you??

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