Post Wedding Blues- Married Bees

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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2620 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

i was blue. my wedding didnt go the way that i wanted- because the groom had an emergency we didnt get all the photos i wanted with important people- we cant do a redo photos because since the wedding we had his uncle, him mom and one of the grooms men die.

 

i think of all the postives that happened- even with dh in hospital emergency room he was able to come to the ceremony and we did get married- we were just 30 minutes behind schedule, the candy bar was a hit and we didnt have a million pounds of candy to take home, (took home bout 5 pounds of left over candy) him mom did get to see her only child get married(terminal cancer) the cake was super yummy!

Post # 4
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2962 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

@californiabride2013:  I didn’t even know this was real until a few weeks ago. My wedding wasn’t at all what I wanted because my wedding planner didn’t listen to me at all and did whatever she wanted to do at my expense! I asked for color (shades of coral, blush and peach to be exact). I had a white wedding 🙁  The photos, not so great, and the photographer missed pics of VIPs such as my mother and my kids! Also she didn’t do bridal portraits. Videographer, a joke. Cake, even worse! It was a nightmare for me. The time that I should have spent mailing off thank you cards, I was busy emailing her about how upset I was. I wanted to take her to small claims court (I didn’t tell her this) but decided it would be more trouble than it was worth and didn’t go thru with it. It just would have been my word against hers.

 

Anyways, to get over this you just have to dive into another hobby to get obsessive over. I am currently house hunting and trying to figure out what I want to paint and how I want to decorate my house once we move into one. It’s been kinda working. I also want a vow renewal (just me and hubby) to kinda fix the disaster we remember as our wedding day. We never got to go on a honeymoon either so doing a vow renewal when we have our first honeymoon would be nice.

 

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