Post-wedding depression.. help!

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014 - British Columbia

Hee hee, I’m not married yet, but I think you could possibly look into event planning if you love planning weddings. ;o)

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@OnceUponATime:  I felt it too. I planned our wedding by myself without the help of even one other person. My wedding wasn’t perfect & I had some small regrets, but ultimately I couldn’t believe the spotlight was no longer mine & life was supposed to return to normal. I was depressed pretty badly for about 2 weeks, & by 4 week I was finally back to myself again.

Getting the pictures really helps things to feel “wrapped up.” I still have my wedding dress hanging on our closet door though, and my husband keeps baggering me to get rid of it or do something with it.

I think the only thing that heals this sort of blues is time..

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

@OnceUponATime:  I refocused on getting our home in order and my college studies. I put our wedding gifts away and reorganized our cabinets. I also painted and hung up some photos. I got a lot of decorating and organizing ideas off of pinterest. I found some pretty good recipes on there, as well.

We also got a new puppy. He has kept us busy.:-)

I think if you give it some time and get busy with other things you’ll feel better. It took me about 4 months to get settled and we’re still working on projects. To be honest, I’m still not completely “comfortable” but I’m doing better with time. If it took you a while to plan your wedding I think it’ll take a few months to get back in to a routine.

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