(Closed) Post wedding vent! Irritating sister

posted 8 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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1498 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

My sister and I are very close, so I’m sorry that you don’t have that kind of relationship with yours.  She should have just been happy for you and not trying to make jokes.

Post # 4
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2538 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

I’m so sorry.

Post # 5
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5496 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2010

That’s horrible! I can’t believe she said those things. You say that you aren’t close, but has she always made such mean comments? Just awful!

Post # 6
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3176 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

What a horrible thing to say! I’m so sorry you have to deal with that from your own sister!!

Post # 7
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7152 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2010

I can’t believe she said that….joking or not!

Post # 8
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762 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Geez. Is she jealous of your marriage? That’s kind of what it sounds like to me. I’m sorry she said those things. The other day, FMIL was over and we were watching “Bethanny Getting Married” and she said, “I don’t know why people bother getting married anyway. Everyone just ends up getting divorced”. Ahem.

Post # 9
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2829 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

Wow. Why would she even bother coming to your wedding if she was going to behave like that/ not be supportive.

Some people.

Post # 10
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

That is ridiculous. Why do people feel like they need to inject their negative energy into someone else’s wonderful day? I’d say it was “unbelievable” but I’ve gone through some similar things lately that make me believe!

At a family BBQ last weekend, FI’s sister was saying her goodbyes when FI’s stepdad’s brother said “see you in September!” and she turned to him and said “Why…? What’s in September?” and he said “Um.. your brother’s wedding???” and in a very disgusted tone said “Ugh… oh yeah… that.” FI and I were within earshot (5-6 feet away), but I don’t think she knows that I heard her. GRR.

Post # 11
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

My sister and I aren’t close, so I totally sympathize.  I’d imagine when people say things on “the day” it magnifies the intensity of their statement.  That was so inappropriate for her to say on ANY day.  Too bad you can’t choose your family…just try to stay positive 🙂

Post # 12
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Bumble bee

wow.. i would be super annoyed too!

even though my sister is my MOH, but knowing her, she wouldn’t help out with anything and might even show impatience every now and then during the wedding.. 🙁 but she’s still my sister and i do want her to be in my wedding as MOH..

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