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post you and your DH's wedding set! does it match?

posted 5 months ago in Rings
  • poll: our wedding bands...
    ...are matchy matchy! same band, different size : (5 votes)
    5 %
    ...are SUBTLY different. same metal, same style; you'd only notice the differences up close : (13 votes)
    14 %
    ...mine's blinged out! his isn't : (25 votes)
    27 %
    ...his is blinged out, mine isn't : (0 votes)
    ...COMPLETELY different! they don't even look like a set but hey, we're still married!! : (48 votes)
    53 %
    ...I'm using my e-ring as the band : (0 votes)
    ...other!! : (0 votes)
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    patchy    December 12, 2012  

    just wondering how much people like their bands to match! our rings look very similar yes?? but DH was having doubts because his has squared off edges and mine was smooth. it's even from the same store, but if he had it his way we'd be wearing the same band, different sizes!! however, the same band just didn't suit the both of us. him wearing my band is too girly, and me wearing his band was just too rough. the different bands suited us perfectly, and besides, they look the SAME from afar! lol. imo, it's already matchy-matchy enough when it's the same metal. how much do YOU care about being a "set"?

     
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    SimpleGifts    June 8, 2013  

    Our bands are the same metal and I think they compliment each other very well.  They match but not in the sense that they look the same, just in that they go together.

     
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    patchy    December 12, 2012  

    no pics? Cry

     
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    Birdee106    October 6, 2012   KS

    Our's our completely different. Different store, different metal, different look.

    This is what my band looks like,

    And this is his, he wanted something very different,

     
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    MASPA    December 2012   East Coast

    I seriously cannot tell the difference between the two of your rings.

    We sorta match.  He has a two tone hand engraved ring.

     

    I have two.  The yellow is my grandmothers we had hand engraved and the other is an estate piece from a local jeweler.

     

     

     
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    patchy    December 12, 2012  

     @Birdee106: woah, that is very different indeed! it's like a knight and a princess. it's an odd pair but it works!

    @MASPA: that's very cool! I like how the yellow stone ties in with the yellow gold, it's like a jewelry sandwich.

    and I know, it looks the SAME from afar. that photo isn't very clear, but it's the only one I had with both in it. it is quite different up-close (I know, sounds crazy but his ring does NOT suit me and mine does NOT suit him! just feels 'off'), but here... these are the stock photos:

    his/mine

     

    he's just concerned because they come from two different "sets". *eyeroll* he's afraid someone walking down the street will be wearing the "actual set", and whisk me off righteously. or something. lol I never thought he'd mind this stuff!

     
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    strawbs    May 15, 2012  

    mine's white gold and his is tungsten, but they both have the same chrome finish so they match

     
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    Josina    August 25, 2012   Iowa

    Same as above, mine is white gold and his is tungsten, but they match. It wasn't a priority though.

     
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    AnnieAAA    October 25, 2009   Dallas, TX

    They match in terms of the color metal (mine is platinum and his is white gold, but they both have a similar finish.)

     

     
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    jwilk241    October 12, 2013   VB

    We don't have ours yet but he definitely wants a simple yellow gold band and I want white gold or rose gold with diamonds. So they won't match at all but that's fine with me :)

     
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    mypinkshoes    April 28, 2012   mexico/ontario

    they are the same colour but not the same metal.    i think his is palladium.

    i have 2 bands.  one plain and one bling.  he prefers simple.

     
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    6598731ssfse3    November 16, 2012  

    Ours couldn't be more different.

    Mine is yellow gold, thin, has stones, and milgrain. His is tungsten, thick, and has brushed texture with polished edges.

     

     
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    risingsun       

    Both white gold, but different styles. No bling for either of us!

     
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    Christy42213    April 22, 2013   Maryland, wedding in Rhode Island

    Mine...

    His...

    They're very different, but they are both Tacori.  ;)  And they're both white gold.

     
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    littlegraykitten    October 6, 2012   New England/NYC

    Nope, not even a little bit matchy!

     

    @6598731ssfse3:  I love your band!

     
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    X0JLYNN03    April 20, 2013   Ohio

     
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    loving_life    August 4, 2013   California

    Ours are very different.

    His:

    Mine looks like this with my e-ring:

     
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    dihy    July 27, 2013   Canada

    We aren't married yet, but we are doing our best to make our sets matchy...we both have solitaires for our e-rings, but I wanted some bling for wedding band and he wanted something with a little extra 'shine' but no diamonds, so we got hammered white gold instead for him. This is what they will look like after we are married...we can't wait! lol

     
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    Treejewel19    May 18, 2012   Sonoma County, CA

    Ours are both white gold. That is where the similarities end.

     
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    joleegirl    August 25, 2012   Salisbury

     
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    pinkshoes    July 2011   MA

     
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    squeak    August 10, 2013  

    Ours will be the same plain white gold band, different size, but his is brushed white gold and mine is polished. I hope they won't look too different!

     
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    auggiefrog    August 25, 2012   Wauwatosa, WI

     

     
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    vorpalette    August 23, 2013   Michigan

    Not matchy and we didn't really care.

    Crappy picture, but his is plain brushed titanium (and darker than it looks here), and mine is white gold with filigree and milgrain detail with diamonds.

     
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    redheadem    September 30, 2012   NYC/MD

    Mine - sapphire eternity, his - plain white gold

    I wouldn't want them to match.

     
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    lifegirl    September 14, 2013   BC

    Hubbys is Titanium with a beautiful blue sparkly middle. Mine is white gold with blue topaz & diamonds.

     
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    jpalm13    May 25, 2013  

    It was important to me that ours match/cooridnate. They'll both be in rose gold. They aren't an exact match but they look like a coordinated set.

    Mine will be like this:

    FI's will be like this:

     
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    maraschino    April 28, 2012   pacific northwest

    @MASPA:  I really love your rings. They look so beautiful and unique stacked together!

     
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    HeathenSwan    December 29, 2012   PA

    Mine is a thin rose gold band with a scroll pattern, his is titanium with a horn and wood inlay.

     
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    cb336    June 14, 2014   Canada

    We haven't bought ours yet, but we already know they won't match.  We both happen to want platinum, but I want achannel set diamond band, and fiance wants a totally plain, flat band.

     
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    MrsB22    April 19, 2013   Baltimore

    I was wondering if they are supposed to match or not, mine are both white gold but my FI really likes this one gold david yurman band

     
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    Lyndzo    August 25, 2012   Milton, ON EDD Jan 12/2014

    Mine:

    His:

     
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    MASPA    December 2012   East Coast

    @maraschino:  aw thank you! 

     
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    bells    June 26, 2011  

    Ours are totally different. Originally I wanted a matching set but in the end we had different tastes. I have ahalf eternity diamond & white gold ring and his is black and silver tungsten

     
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    shashabee    February 14, 2014  

    I wanted a blinged out diamond band, but FI just wanted a plain band. So, no, ours are not matchy matchy! :P

     

     
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    lanipapillon    November 11, 2012  

    matchy matchy :-)   We both wanted to match but I HATED the rings he liked and he didn't like the rings I liked. Finally, we compromised by choosing ultra simple rings so neither of us could go wrong...

     

     
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    MoonlightRose    September 8, 2012  

    Our rings match because they're both yellow gold Claddagh rings, but his ring is much bigger than mine and my ring is blinged out whereas his is plain.  I also have a matching wedding band that fits underneath my Claddagh ring but he doesn't want a band.  Honestly, I love the fact that our rings match and so does he now, but it didn't mean very much to him at first and he originally didn't really like the Claddagh design.  In fact, he was supposed to have a tungsten wedding band, but to make a very long story short, he couldn't wear that ring and we didn't have enough time left before the wedding to get him a replacement tungsten band, so I quickly bought him this matching yellow gold Claddagh ring and surprised him with it.  The intention was only for him to wear it for the ceremony and then keep it only as a keepsake afterwards.  I just wanted to give him this traditional Irish love ring because my Irish heritage is very important to me and I wanted to share it with him, and I told him that I would be honored if he would wear this ring during the ceremony, but I also told him that he didn't have to wear it anymore after that if he didn't want to.  I honestly expected to have to get him a replacement tungsten band, but me giving him this ring (and the explanation I provided for it) meant a lot more to him than the tungsten band and he was married with this ring, so the Claddagh ring has grown on him and now he loves it and always wants to wear it. :)  

     
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    GeekChic    June 2012   Ontario, Canada

    Ours are both white gold but that is where the similarities end

     

     
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    mjwyatt84    March 30, 2013   Las Vegas, NV

    Ours dont match but both have bling:) 

     
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    crookedframe    November 30, 2013   Sydney, Australia

    My DF's ring just arrived! Very happy with it! It's a 4mm flat palladium band with a brushed finish. The first pic is of my set (very thin palladium bands and a moissanite stone in my e-ring) and the second picture is of my hand wearing my e-ring and DF's wedding ring on my middle finger (excuse the weird reflection on my e-ring: my phone cover is red!)

     

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