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posted 3 years ago in June 2014
  • poll: Which are you most looking forward to?
    The Wedding Ceremony : (10 votes)
    14 %
    The Wedding Reception : (11 votes)
    16 %
    The Wedding night ;) : (1 votes)
    1 %
    The Honeymoon : (15 votes)
    21 %
    All of the above equally!! : (33 votes)
    47 %
  • Post # 2
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    1295 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    Those are pretty legitimate fears! But although I really shoul take my own advice about thie, we have to remember that worrying about the weather is pointless. We are having an outside wedding, and although i am worried about rain, i am most fearful of the temperature. I want it to be comfortable when everyone is in the covered barns. 

    I am scared about a few smaller things: that everyone has fun, that I dont forget to unbustle my dress before I go down the aisle.. and that I wont be as beautiful as MY FI thinks i will be on our wedding day in his head. it is stupid and my own insecurity.. he always things I look beautiful, I just really want to blow him away and not spend all this time to be mediocre. lol 

    I am June 7th btw.. its getting SO CLOSE!!!! 

    Post # 3
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    6273 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: October 2013

     

    MrsYoshida:  i was expecting my period the monday after my wedding, it came the day before.  and my second day is always the worst.  i was scared i was going to ruin my dress but everything was fine.  and i have the best girlfriends.  they helped me in the bathroom, held my dress while i changed my tampon. 

    so yeah, my worst nightmare came true but in the end, it wasn’t bad at all.

     

    Post # 4
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    282 posts
    Helper bee

    I’m terrified of looking bad in my pictures. I’m very awkward in front of a camera, i feel I don’t photograph well so I get tense and nervous. Then im a self fulfilling prophecy mans end up looking bad In photos!

     

    Having an engagement session soon to try and practice!

     

    Post # 5
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    3280 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    I’m scared my dress won’t fit because the last time I tried it on it was 6 sizes too big and 4 weeks before the wedding, and won’t be done until the week of! I’m also scared no one will show up, we have 250 RSVP’s yes and it just feels small to me compared to the normal 400+ guest weddings in my area. I’m also scared my hair and make up won’t look good because I haven’t done any trials or anything. I worried the trolley will be late, making the wedding party late. I’m worried I won’t be able to decorate the hall the day before because I have classes. I really just want to leave for the honeymoon ASAP lol 

    Post # 6
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    353 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2014

    I’m an October 25th bride and I’m also worried about my period showing up (but I don’t want to go on the pill…)

    Post # 7
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    1194 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    I refuse to have my period. I’m skipping my placebo week leading up to it, so there’s no chance. I’m also scared my dress won’t fit. I know I’ve gained weight because I’ve been stress eating and I’m really terrified about it, but when I get scared I eat and that’s a terribly vicious cycle.

    Post # 8
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    1893 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2014 - Dallas, TX

    I’m scared I’ll feel fat. I’m also scared a lot of people won’t come. I’m Sept. 2014 and haven’t sent out invites yet. I’m also scared my FI will smash cake in my face. He really really really wants to and I told him NO WAY, but he might still try. I’m scared the ceremony will start late/run over and the sun will set before we can get pictures (we’re only going to have about 15 minutes after ceremony until sunset :/). I’m also scared that I won’t be able to have enough quality time with the people who are coming in from out of town. How do you juggle spending time with everyone?! Ok, I’m done lol.

    Post # 9
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    1779 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    MrsYoshida:  I’m scared it will be boring and people will leave early. I’m scared that I’ll have terrible skin that day (spurred by the fact that my skin is awful right now).  Totally scared the planners will forget things. So many things!

    Post # 10
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    55 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: October 2014 - Easton's Beach Rotunda Ballroom

    I’m a worry wart so I worry about everything and anything. I keep having to remind myself to breathe and that no matter what it will still be the best day of my life.

    I’m afraid I will look like crud in my photos, that people won’t have a good time at the reception, and that we have horrible weather (outside on the beach in early October on the east coast. hello hurrican season). I’m afraid I will forget something and/or something goes wrong day of.

    Post # 11
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    760 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2014 - Gold Hill Gardens

    I’m worried it’ll be really hot – our wedding is an all-day outdoor event . . . On the summer solstice. There is shade, we’ll have TONS of water and drinks, and we’re planning to have at least one misting station. 

    Post # 12
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    63 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: September 2014 - The Fox Hill Inn

    I’m a Sept. 2014 bride and I get migraines frequently so I’m afraid I’ll have a HUGE migraine from all the stress leading up to the day of! I am stocking up on lots of my prescribed migraine meds and making sure every BM has some so if one hits, I can find one of them and not worry about it! But I still can’t help but worry about it :/

    Post # 13
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    636 posts
    Busy bee

    I’m scared it’ll rain and I won’t have any good pictures because of it. The ceremony is outdoors and if it’s raining we’ll have to move the ceremony to the reception location and will have to take all pictures inside. I was really hoping to have shots out in the woods/tree’d area. Fingers crossed that it’ll work out…

    Post # 14
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    1768 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    June 7 here! I’m scared our wedding won’t live up to my expectations. Ive had SO much fun planning and really pouring my heart and soul into it…and if it doesn’t go well I just know I’ll be bummed. I’m also really worroed about post wedding blues because I’ve loved planning it so much. And I’m worried that no one will dance/have fun. So much so that FI took our RSVP spreadsheet and coded everyone as “will party” “might party” or “won’t party”. Good news is that out if 99 RSVPed “yes” people (which is another story- our deadline was Saturday and we’re still missing 30% of our responses…), we’ve got 48 people in the “will party” category.

    Post # 15
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    1768 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    Kazza:  get an umbrella and take pictures outside anyway! So romantic!

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