Post # 1
need some hive suggestions, wedding is in 25 days had a death in the family, family drama and sadly financial situations have risen with helping family costs towards funeral. Everything that could go wrong with this wedding has gone wrong, my dress, my bridesmaids dress’s are not even in yet and they were ordered months ago, invites obviously were sent out, this is a smallish wedding with 80 ppl or so. I hate the idea of needing to postpone, however, considering all that has happened I feel like this is something that needs to happen. How can I do this without falling apart?
Post # 3
We had to postpone our with less than a month out due to the death of DHs exwife, they had children. It is totally duable and EVERYONE will understand. You will make it through, I promise. Once the phone calls are all made you will feel the weight lifted. If you need anything, just PM me, I was exactly where you are a year and a half ago.
Post # 4
I’m sorry for your loss. And yes, I think it’s quite understandable to postpone the wedding. Perhaps you could try talking to the vendors and seeing if you can get credit towards a future wedding, although being 25 days out may make it more difficult.
Best of luck to you and my condolences. You’ll make it through this. Sometimes life just likes to get difficult. Lean on your fiance and loved ones for support.
Post # 5
Take care of YOU. People will understand, and if they don’t, tough for them. It will be hard obviously, but once you set a new date, you’ll be able to get excited all over again and not have any of this heavy stuff weighing you down.
Post # 6
I’m very sorry to hear your news and everything you are going through. Your wedding should be a happy day for you, and it sounds like it’s best to postpone given the recent death in the family. Can friends or family help you make calls to the invited guests? I’m sure they will understand, and you could send simple updated invites once things have settled down and you’ve had a chance to regroup. Please take care of yourself, you will get through this.