(Closed) Postponing wedding….aaahhh!

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
69 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Stay strong! I am in a smiliar boat. Two months ago, Fiance decided he wasn’t quite ready to get married (maybe not even to me at all) in May. I was absolutely devestated. After several talks, we decided to stay together and engaged for the time being, and just post pone indefinately. I was initally very sad. Then I was extremely angry because I had put so much of my own money into the wedding (FI goes to school still, so not him) as well as the money his parents had lost on the caterer deposit we had booked literally three weeks prior, and the bridal shower invites that went out the week before. Now, I’m starting to get over it, At least I don’t have the urge to cry everyday. Anywayssssssssss. Getting back to you! While our reasons behind “postponement” are different, I feel the same way. In fact, FI’s grandparents sent us a letter stating how disappointed they were that two people so in love couldn’t work things out. Obviously, Fi’s mom did not fully explain to everyone. The worst though, is when you meet new people, and they are like “oh, your engaged, when’s the big day??” and you put on a smile and say “haven’t set a date yet” when in reality, you’ve planned a whole wedding already. As well as other girls who are also getting married and getting the pity from them.

Things are better now, but I’m still unsure about the future. Chances are we won’t get married til Fiance is out of grad school in 2 years. UGH

Good luck and keep thinking positive!

Post # 4
6015 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: March 2012

I wonder what the OP did … it’s been four months …

Post # 6
1239 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

I think she might be married now as I saw another post from a couple of weeks ago talking about her husband, unless I got it wrong. 

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