(Closed) potential noisy guest problem

posted 7 years ago in Family
Post # 3
Member
345 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

wow, I don’t think you’re being unreasonable at all, I think she’s being really harsh.  Have you reminded her of how she took your son out of the room for being restless?  It’s not like you’re saying you don’t want your half brother there, just that if he is being upset then it would be best for him and everyone else if he has another space to go to. That way it will be an enjoyable day for everyone. 

And I hate it when wedding gifts are conditional!  If she has offered to provide a buffet and cake then she can’t take it back just because she’s throwing her toys out of the pram!  that is so juvenile.  I don’t have personal experience of this problem but I hope you can work something out.  Your dad should still go to your wedding no matter what, have a talk with him about it and explain how much he means to you and how important it is that he is there.  If he doesn’t go and later regrets it (which he will) it’s not like he gets another chance.  

Post # 4
Member
9825 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

I don’t think you’re being unreasonable for asking he be taken out if he gets upset. But do try to approach this with a lot of tact and understanding.

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