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posted 4 months ago in Ceremony
  • poll: What do you think about pouring beer into a mug during the ceremony?
    Tacky!! : (30 votes)
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    Cute!! : (12 votes)
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    Rush1986      

    Bee's, i gotta ask.

    You know the whole "pouring sand into a glass" or "lighting a candle together" part that alot of people have at their ceremony?

    Well i just saw a picture online of a couple who instead chose to pour beer into a mug during the wedding. 

    So i'd like your opinions...tacky or cute?

     
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    Josina    August 25, 2012   Iowa

    I personally wouldn't do it, seems tacky to me, BUT a wedding is meant to be personal so if it meant something to the couple (and as a member of the audience I would hopefully know them well enough to 'get it') then I'd say go for it. On four weddings last week a couple basically made a mixed drink, each poured some alcohol into a mixer, shook it, and drank - and then served their 'mixed drink' at the reception as well which was neat.

     
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    lfranke    April 9, 2011  

    We incorporated a native American wedding vase in our ceremony. And no one knew what was in it but us. We also used little boot glasses full of beer for our toast with the cake cutting. Then again we brew beer so that ups the rationale.

     
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    Legallyblondiebride    June 2012  

    I just saw this on Four Weddings but it was with a martini. I myself don't care too much for the idea, but to each his own.

     
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    NikkiKillpretty    August 17, 2013   Algonquin, IL

    I love the idea, personally. If it fits your personalities and you're not going too far out of the realm of tradition, just for the sake of braking tradition, I think it could be a fun twist to your ceremony! My FI and I are not fans of the candle or sand, so we opted for the Celtic hand tying ceremony and will be adding a bit of history about it in our programs. That way we hope to limit the amount of confused looks and "what the hell is going on?"'s! lol!

     
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    Bostongrl25    December 2017  

    I don't really get it, but if that is what you want then go for it :)

     
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    Rush1986      

    Oh i didnt watch Four Weddings this week! 

    The only rationale i can get from it was that they like to drink alot...lol. It was just cans of beer being poured into a mug. 

     
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    AnnieAAA    October 25, 2009   Dallas, TX

    I would only do it, if there is significant meaning to you, other then that I think its just a little strange.

     
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    skyeatnight    August 13, 2011   UK

    Not really my thing and I voted tacky but it is YOUR wedding after all.  Whatever makes you happy is the main thing Smile

     
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    atalante    May 19, 2012  

    I don't see how it's tacky, especially if you guys are really into beer/brewing/etc. To me it's no different than sand.

    But would you be combining two different beers?

     
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    Rush1986      

    @atalante:

    the picture was like Coors Light with i think MGD maybe?

    I'm not considering this for my own wedding, just wanted opinions. My immediate thought when i saw it was "really?"

     
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    lfranke    April 9, 2011  

    Oh, eek!! canned beers belong in canoes and campsites, not weddings. Perhaps pour the beer into glasses first then to a combined mug?

     
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    soyjoy222    June 1, 2012   PA

    yikes! I personally think this is a little scary.

     
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    atalante    May 19, 2012  

    @Rush1986: OK, that's a little different.... I mean, I could see pouring out a black and tan with good microbrews - that would make cool pictures and would be unique. Plus that would really fit a beer-conoissoer (sp?) couple. Canned domestic light beer? It'd have to be significant.

     
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    joymarie83    June 2, 2012   Milwaukee,WI

    I have never heard of it but why not do something different!

     

     I am skipping out on thsi part all together.

     
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    bells    June 26, 2011  

    I dont like this idea.

     
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    Mrs.KMM    July 17, 2010   Atlanta, GA (wedding in Indianapolis, IN)

    I don't like this idea.  Beer doesn't really belong in a wedding ceremony, IMO.

     
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    Ashley1001    October 23, 2010   Tallahassee, FL

    OMG!  I wish I had hear about that before I got married!  Our wedding was very laid back, and we didn't want a traditional wedding.  We skipped the pouring of the sand, but this would have fit us perfectly!  Do whatever fits YOU!! Now if you are getting married in a church, I'm not sure how that would look....

     
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    KimmySumShuga    September 21, 2012   Newport Beach, California

    Liking beer is one thing...
    using it to symbolizing uniting the two of you forever? TACKY!

    Beer is given a bad rap by dead beats & sloppy drunks and thus it has no place in a beautiful, marriage ceremony but I have no problem with aiding in the celebration at the reception :]

     

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