(Closed) Pre Wedding Meltdown

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
2281 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Honestly, I think these are wedding jitters and you’re seriously overwhelmed. I fully expect to be right where you are very soon.

Perhaps you could find a way to communicate to family and friends that you could really use some help and some support this week. It’s possible that the people around you assume that 1) you’re so capable and organized that you’ll get it all done and don’t need help and/or 2) enough other people are helping that they don’t need to.

I’d sent out a quick, cheery message to some of the people you’re close to, letting them know that your work schedules are making last minute preparations tricky, and you could use help from anyone who has time/energy to spare. List a few of the things you need help with (ex: Thursday afternoon favor sorting, Saturday morning chair set-up, etc.). I don’t know if you’ll get everything covered that way, but even if people help pick up a little of the slack, it will make a difference for you.

Plus the asking for help might feel kind of good since you’re feeling like you’re drowning in it right now.

Hope it gets better!

Post # 5
1158 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

Make your fiance help you.Each day after work commit to an hour knocking things off your list together.You shouldnt be doing everything.It is his wedding too.Good luck!

Post # 6
864 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@Week2GoKet:  If your only fighting about wedding things I wouldn’t worry about it. If you are fighting about things like money, religion, kids, any other big subject then you might have an issue.

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