Post # 1
Ever since Found out i was having a baby, ive been ridiculously sick. So nautious….weak..i work also full Time (pre k teacher ). I feel so guilty that this whole week we didnt have sex. Hes understanding and says its okay but this morning/afternoon/evening sickness is beating me up.
I feel so bad ugh. Any ladies went through this too?
Post # 3
Don’t feel bad! You’re body is going through A LOT right now growing a little human! It’s great that your DH is understanding:) My DH and I didn’t have sex until the end of the 1st tri b/c I just didn’t feel up to it!
Post # 4
@Mrsgurzakovic: Don’t feel bad its normal. I went through the same thing as well; your body is going through a ton. I wasn’t as sick really, but I was absolutely exhausted; come home from work and take a nap tired lol. Once you get through this you will get back to feeling like you want to have sex and it will be great! It’s awesome how understanding your DH is; you need it. Hang in there; it will get easier! Good Luck and CONGRATS!
Post # 5
I’m 32 weeks and I can probably count on one hand the number of times we’ve had sex during my pregnancy. Most of the time, I’m just not in the mood at all, and even when I am, I’m still too tired to make much of an effort. DH has pretty much given up on initiating at this point so we just don’t do it.
He’s understanding about it, at least. I figure the 6 weeks+ of no sex postpartum will seem like no big thing to us.
Post # 6
We haven’t had sex in over a month, I just haven’t felt up to it! I’ll be 11 weeks on Sunday, and I’m just now finally starting to feel horny again.
Post # 7
I did not go through this until after I delivered. Even though I had a cesarean it still really hurt down there. So on top of the 6 weeks period…I think we went about 8 weeks without intercourse and 10 weeks until I was actually able to tolerate it. He was very understanding the entire time, but yes it was irritating and I felt pretty bad. Good thing we have such great men!
Post # 8
@Mrsgurzakovic: I’m almost 16 weeks pregnant and DH and I have had sex probably 5 times throughout this pregnancy. Don’t feel bad.
Post # 9
This is me and I am almost 7 weeks. Nothing. I am so sick all the time. Especially at night and in the morning.
I actually want it, but am just to sick! I am hoping as soon as the sickness passes.
Post # 10
I wouldn’t worry about it, if you’re not feeling sick you’ll be tired, or bloated or feel huge etc… the list goes on.
We probably only average once a week-biweekly and it’s almost 100% on weekends because it’s the only time I get decent sleep and feel rested.
Post # 11
We used to DTD 3-4 times a week, but lately he’s lucky if I feel like it once a week. I’m naseous, constipated and tired. It’s not really a priority. He’s been super good about it though.