(Closed) Pregnancy dreams, but not good ones.

posted 5 years ago in TTC
Post # 3
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1855 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@psyche:  Are you sure you’re not pregnant now?  Honestly, it sounds like the NTNT (but not getting PG) is stressing you out and affecting your emotions/sleep.  Maybe take a break from NTNT until you are truly ready to TTC.  Go back to using condoms/contraception so that you’re not constantly wondering why you’re not getting pregnant.  Even a couple TRYING to get PG only has a 20% chance each month of conceiving, so if you’re not charting or otherwise actively trying during your fertile window, then the likelihood of conceiving is much less.  Chances are nothing is wrong with either one of you.  To help allieviate your fears, maybe start charting so you can become more familiar with your cycle; then, when you’re really ready to TTC, you’ll have a head start and if there are any problems, you’ll be aware of them.

Post # 4
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1855 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Get a copy of Taking Charge of Your Fertility.  It describes charting, and much much more!

Post # 6
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209 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

I agree with reading that book, and come and join us on the POAS and charting threads when you are ready.  We will all help you with lingo and everything else! 🙂

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

do not stress if you are NTNT. my DH and i did it for about a year and a half. then finally, trying for 6 months. i didnt do charting or anything. i just made sure i knew when my periods were and used the ovulation calander that first responces has online. & it worked. do not stress ! i was lossing hope and fast, and then i was pregnant and didnt even know. my DH had to say, “emily you didnt have a period last month” just dont stress, it will happen. good luck !

 

& if it makes you feel better about your dreams, i am 31 weeks pregnant with a boy and now have had 2 dreams that its a girl.

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