Pregnancy/Conceiving Complications

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 2
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2013 - UK

Sadly, I have a feeling that you will have to live with a certain amount of uncertainty in this regard, as many couples do when TTC.

However, at least the problem has been identified now, which means that it can be treated. I presume the doctor suggested removing the cysts and putting you on clomid or similar?

Post # 4
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2013 - UK

Glorificous:  It seems as if you have a doctor who knows what they are doing, anyway. PCOS is very treatable nowadays, as are the issues surrounding it.

I think it would have been a lot worse if you were struggling to conceive and had no idea what was wrong, if that helps at all. There are people who can go years without knowing what the problem is, only to realise that they had a problem which was treatable all along, but they are now too old to have a baby.

It seems to me that the diagnosis and treatment can only be a good thing.

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

Glorificous:  I’m sorry to hear that. I, too, may have issues conceiving. I’ve known this since I was 10, though and I am 27 now. I’ve had plenty of time to come to terms with it and accept the fact. I used to feel like my purpose would be meaningless without biological kids, but I’ve reached a place in my life where I don’t necessarily feel like I have to physically carry my own children, if that is what it comes down to. I also stopped worrying. If it’s meant to be, it’ll be.

There are plenty of women who are told they can’t conceive or will have issues conceiving who do have healthy children. There are women who have no medical indication that they can’t get pregnant who never get pregnant.

I would take it day by day and focus on the things you need to do in your life now. I think you will be just fine. Best wishes.

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