(Closed) Pregnant and maid of honour, but the bride is upset with me!

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
150 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: February 2005

Sounds like you helped a ton. Especially with being pregnant and planning for that.

I would tell my sister those exact words you said about being hurt. She probably doesn’t understand how much that hurts to have your own sister say things that even hint you’re not being supportive enough.

Post # 4
625 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

It’s 2 days before the wedding and she’s probably Bridezilla-ing it up right now… theyre stressful times! It’s true that she should be considering your feelings too, being as far along as you are, but she’s probably just got a lot on her plate and feels like she can’t handle things and she’s snipping at the first available person who isn’t doing something for her at the time. I’m sure in 2 days she will love you all over again 🙂 Be strong!

Post # 5
3668 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

Oh wow, that sucks… I agree that she’s probably lashing out due to stress.

Post # 6
83 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

oh dear – my Maid/Matron of Honor said she may try for a bub and therefore maybe preggers at my wedding and I dont give a hoot- apart from the fact that i will be so damn excited for her! My sister isnt even going to come to my wedding coz she is jealous and competitive. your sister sounds like a bridezilla – i dont get bridezillas – they scare me!!

Post # 7
1813 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

You are not going to get much sense from her this week, (See that wall?  You’d get more sense from that in honesty) and confronting her now will be just pointless because she is away on another planet.  Bite your tongue for now, but after the wedding, I would take her to the side and tell her that she is extremely out of order and that you have been nothing but helpful, even though you are HEAVILY pregnant. You deserve and apology!

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