- 5 years ago
- Wedding: June 2013
Just found this site tonight, and hoping you guys might be able to help me out.
I’m getting married in June, I have most things sorted just down to the little bits now.
I got a phone call from my best mate whos my chief bridesmaid, to tell me that shes pregnant. Im delighted for her, but not so much for myself. She has know for over a year that she is Bridesmaid or Best Man, i have paid and ordered her dress. To be honest this isnt the problem in the scale of the cost another dress isn’t a huge amount.
Im worried about if she will still actually be able to continue to be my bridesmaid? She has only had the doctor confirm the pregnacy and hasn’t seen midwife (shes living in London not sure what way it works over there), from the dates she has given me i worked out that her dute date is the 8th July and my wedding is the 29th June.She wants to continue being bm, but i dont think that she realises what being pregnat is like as its her first.
So given that she will be 38-39 wks, i am at a total loss as to what to think or do. Im not thinking about pics dresses etc i dont care about her been pregnant in them, shes my girl i love her to bits, but i can’t help but worry, she will be full term at wedding.Im worried for her, will she be able, could she go into labour etc?
Has any other bride been in this situation? I am just looking for some one to calm me, im so worried, my fiance just keeps saying everything will be fine, i dont think he understands. Sorry for the rant girls x