(Closed) Prego MOH

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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1276 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Do you really need to demote her or can you just understand that she has other events in her life that might not make you the center of her attention? I would have a conversation with her about whether she thinks she can be what you need in a MOH and leave it up to her to decide if she needs to step down or not. 

I’m confused, are your BMs frantically putting on a bridal shower for you or her? 

Post # 5
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Bee Keeper

@sweet4520: I would sit her down and have a talk with her about it. Just let her know that she has an out if she wants to…but you’d be just as happy with her standing up there with you. You don’t want to give her the wrong impression by asking her to step down. Give her the option if you want to save the friendship.

Post # 7
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5978 posts
Bee Keeper

@sweet4520:  Good! Just spin it like you’re concerned for her comfort the day of the wedding. That you would be as happy her being your MOH as you would be with her as a guest and that it’s completely up to her. If she stays in the wedding, just give your other BMs a heads up that she isn’t going to be a ton of help.

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