- 4 years ago
- Wedding: May 2014
Even though we haven’t set a date yet for this to take place I am super nervous about it. Not nervous enough to skip it but just anxious that after one session, the counseler will say ” I have no idea how you guys have even made it this far but it’s clear to me that you do not need to be married”.
I think a lot of that is just my own insecurities but it didn’t help that when we first started dating I overheard his mom tell him that I was a downgrade from his usual girlfriends and what did he see in me. Even my previous daycare worker (I had known her since I was 15 and used her for daycare once I had kids) asked how in the world did we get together since our personalities are so different.
You would think after 7 years, I would be okay and I thought I was but I keep having nightmares and daydreams about the counsler just tellling us to get out and stop wasting his/her time. can any bees that have been through counseling give me a little heads up on the process? Maybe that will help calm my fears (at least a little bit).