Pressure to look picture perfect

posted 3 years ago in 20 Something
Post # 3
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309 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

@inukoro1177:  I think you look gorgeous.  The short hair looks really elegant with the dress.  And I love those button details on the back of the dress – they make your behind look fantasstic!

Post # 5
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1112 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@inukoro1177:  

 

It’s a super gorgeous dress and you rock it!

Personally, I love corsets too, so I think that adds to the charm!

 

But I know how you feel. I feel pressured to look gorgeous too.  I can’t even count how  many ppl have asked me over the year i’ve been engaged if i’m “sweating for the dress” or on a “wedding diet”… i’m all… don’t i look good as is!? *sigh*

Post # 6
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1040 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

@inukoro1177:  Maybe its just me but you’re the spitting image of Melanie Lynskey (Rose in 2 & 1/2 Men) – and she’s definitely gorgeous! And I actually think your hair looks great at its current length.

Post # 7
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1076 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

Um, you look BEAUTIFUL!

Families and friends can be stupid because they’re putting all their own expectations on you. What do you expect to look like?

You rock that bob, by the way. I think you look stunning.

Post # 10
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1466 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

@inukoro1177:  Honestly, you look gorgeous. What weight do you have to lose? And short hair is beautiful too!!! Sorry those people are being unsupportive to you. You look wonderful! Are you thinking updo (yes it can be done with short hair! get a good stylist for that) or leaving it down? EIther way you’ll look amazing! 

Post # 12
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2851 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

OMG! Stop it! You are like, super pretty and elegant looking.

Moms can be tough. I tried on a dress the other day for the rehersal dinner… She said “Cute!… But you will need to get a padded bra”. WTF?! I know I have tiny ta ta’s.. ya don’t need to rub it in mom!! Jeez!…

Post # 14
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1466 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

@inukoro1177:  Well then it’s settled! You’re going to look amazing! 

Post # 15
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4698 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@inukoro1177:  I know how you feel about pressure to look perfect! I feel SOOO much pressure to make everything perfect because I am going really offbeat and I feel like I have to “prove” that my oddball choices are good ones! Additionally all of his friends just got girlfriends (don’t even start me on the guest list drama 5 guys get girlfriends who are apparently all quite serious in the span of a few months) and they’re all younger and hotter than me, so I feel like I have to really kick it up a notch so FH feels like he’s a winner. 

(Note, if you asked him, he would probably scoff at the idea that I’m anxious about this, it’s not like he’s ever given me reason to doubt that he’s proud to be with me, this neurosis is entirely my own.)

Also, you look amazing, your figure is totally envy-worthy and your ensemble and hair and everything makes you look so elegant and regal!!

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