(Closed) Pretty sure my ex has my wedding date saved in his phone

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

Why don’t you tell him to leave you alone?

Post # 4
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

@strawbabies:  +1.

Or yeah stick with your plan and ignore him. He will go away eventually.

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Yeah, why can’t you tell him to stop texting you? Or saves his number in your phone so you know who it is next time. Also, why can’t you block it?

Post # 7
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2017

@acciotoni:  tell him that him texting you makes you uncomfortable and that you don’t have any bad feelings towards him but that there is no reason for you two to talk or keep in touch. And then never respond to him again, save his number so you know it when it comes up, and leave it at that.

Post # 9
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

*singular eyebrow raise* I sincerely hope he’s just being friendly but asking if you’re still getting married sounds like he isn’t such a ‘nice guy’ afterall.  Tread with caution and yes, I would just ignore him. 

Post # 11
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2018

Just ignore him. He’s your ex, who cares about his feelings anymore?

Post # 13
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

@ILoveMyKorat:  Exactly.

OP you said yourself that you no longer wish to keep in contact with any of your exs. So who cares what he says or thinks?

Post # 14
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

@acciotoni:  Honestly who cares if he thinks your Fh is being controlling. I think ask him not to contact you anymore and perhaps block his number. It only cost a few dollars I think and if you only do it for a few months I think eventually he stop calling/texting. Whatever you do, be crystal clear that you want him to stop, and tell him if he continues you may have to contact the police. Then don’t respond to any of his text period.

Post # 15
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2017

@acciotoni:  I don’t really understand why you care about making him mad. Who cares what he blames it on. Let him make up some cray cray reasons in his head. I would tell him in no uncertain terms to leave me alone. period. end of story.

Post # 16
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

Eew, ignore him, he’s being creepy. If you only have contact via phone, save his number (with a Z in front of his name so it’s at the bottom of your contacts and you don’t have to see his name all the time, or call him something like “zannoying ex”) and whenever he calls/texts, reject it!

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