(Closed) prewedding horror story

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
1657 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

Oh man, that is so unfortunate. If you two have been together for three years, with minor problems, I know this sounds bad, but maybe there was something else going on while he was with you. I think you could do so much better than him. Compulsive liars do seem to get better over time, but maybe you didn’t notice that he may have been lying again. I’ve had to deal with that in the past too; it sucks. 


All the best. Try to find someone to talk to about this. WB is a great place to start because it is anonymous, and no one will judge you. But still try to find a close friend or family member so you can talk it out. 

Post # 4
2168 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@akirasan:  +1

@turkos:  I also tend to think there’s something else going on here…this just seems so sketchy on his part. Sorry you are having to go through this…but as much as it hurts right now, it may just end up being a blessing in disguise. 

Post # 5
12250 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

I’m so sorry! That sounds horrible!

Post # 6
9142 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2013 - St. Augustine Beach, FL

Sounds to me like you have your answer, when he gets stressed he runs away. Cut your losses and move on. At least he did this before you got married. I am so sorry but how can you ever trust him again?

Post # 7
7561 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: January 2013

That’s horrible. A good relationship is one where you can communicate and share your fears. It may not seem like it now, but it’s better that it happened now and not after you were married. He doesn’t deserve to be with you.

Post # 8
10367 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

I think you get over it by realizing you dodged a bullet by him leaving you instead of being married to a 33 year old who can’t hold down a job.

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