(Closed) Priorities

posted 5 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
Member
115 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I hate to say this but, I really don’t think he is ready. I think he cares more about having a new toy(truck) than your future together.

Post # 4
Member
2401 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

Before my DH proposed, he would talk about getting a new car.  I told myself, we have been together for 3 years, he knows I want to be married and I hoped he did too.  But if he would have bought that car and told me that he could not afford a ring, I would have flipped. 

Post # 5
Member
90 posts
Worker bee

My SO just went out and bought a new motorcycle; I know how you feel. SO had also been looking at rings but told me he isn’t ready to purchase one till next year. At first I was mad at him for choosing a bike over us, but later realized that this final purchase was a last hooray as a single young man before we get engaged/ married. I know my time is coming eventually, so I’m enjoying the time left spent as a gf. Best of luck with the waiting.

Post # 6
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628 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Handsome and I have been going through the same thing he wants to buy a quad for himself (so he doesn’t have to use mine) when I asked him why they cost more than a ring he said he wanted have one before we got married so we didn’t have to worry about it later. I told him that doesn’t make any sense because its only him saving up for a ring once we’re married we could use both our incomes to buy a quad. He could get it faster that way He hasn’t brought up buying a quad before a ring in a couple of months he also hasn’t brought up anything about a ring either but what man will not mine at least

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