- 8 years ago
- Wedding: June 2011
Before I go into detail, I totally blame my guy for blabbing his mouth without having MORE CONCRETE information. With that out the way I shall proceed.
We’re planning a destination wedding next July and have only talked about it until recently. The past few weeks, we have been putting some of our plans into motion. WE both agreed that we wanted to have a quiet, simple ceremony with our “immediate” family (parents/siblings). Mr. Huneebee mentioned our plans to his parents and the flood gates opened. At a family function this past weekend Mr. Huneebee’s aunt told him how excited she was about going to Aruba for our wedding! Arrrrrrrrrrgh! That sent him into a place that I don’t want to deal with while planning a wedding. He immediately approached his mom and asked her why, she told his aunt about our plans. His mom was totally caught off guard, told him she didn’t say a word. So, it was his DAD! Who never says two words at most to anyone. Mr. Huneebee’s dad is so meek and is the sweetest thing walking. Mr. Huneebee couldn’t bring himself to tell his dad to shut his trapper.
Now the word is out and it wasn’t suppose to get out. We are going to have a talk with his parents next weekend, to give them a better understanding of what our plans are. It’s not that we are excluding anyone, we just wanted the ceremony to be private and between our nuclear families. We felt it would be less stressful that way. Not to mention we are planning to have a post wedding celebration when we return which includes all of our families.
Do you think we can still recover and keep our original plans without sending out bad vibes? Lord knows, I don’t want to entertain a bunch of people while trying to enjoy our time in Aruba. His family is enormous.
Planning was going great until this happened. Now Mr. Huneebee is cranky…