- 6 years ago
- Wedding: December 2013
So my Fiance and I have been having problems with the Future Mother-In-Law. She is not the nicest person and is always making nasty comments to my Fiance and putting him down. She would never do this in front of me because she knows I have no problem confronting her, but my Fiance does not want to start anything with her, so he just takes her nastiest. It has come to the point where I do not want to be around her for I am afraid of what I might say to her. My Fiance is 1 of 4 children and it’s just them and their mom, but she only treats my Fiance in this matter, like he is not important. We try our best to be nice to her and do things for her, but nothing seems to be enough. We used to have her over for dinner at least once a week, but this stop about 2 months ago because I just couldn’t be around her without wanting to tell her off for the way she speaks to him. We did just take her out to dinner this past Saturday night and before we even got into the restaurant she was yelling at him and saying stuff. She was so loud that when we walked in the people waiting to be seated turned and looked at us. And then she asked me Why was I so quiet at dinner. My Fiance doesn’t want to say anything for the small family is all he has and he doesn’t want anyone to be mad at him. My family is very large and we are all very close. My mom knows all about what is going on and tries to protect me and my Fiance feelings. I just don’t know what to do. I feel horrible for him that he gets treated this way, and I feel horrible that his family doesn’t really support him. I am also so mad that he does not stick up for himself. We do so much for his family and really nothing in return. I just don’t know what to do anymore. I feel that my only option is to let things go. Thank you for listening to my rant. I feel that every week there is some new issues and the my Future Mother-In-Law just likes to have drama and problems in her life and wants everyone else’s to have drama and problems too..