Problems with my future brother in law

posted 3 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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1613 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@Kimara:  From what your said, it sounds like his is self-centered. Mom just gives in to him.

FI does not have to allow him in the wedding party. He needs to tell his Mom, “I love you and I’m sorry but he is not going to be best man. He does not like my FI and therefore does not support us.” And leave it alone.

Post # 4
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1926 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

@Kimara:  There is always a reason someone IS they way they are. It kind of seems like maybe FI’s mom made the little brother think the sun shines out of his ass… and now he is iiving up to that. And here you come along, disagreeing! Darnit! 

Lol! Have a heart to heart with your FI. I wouldnt want anyone in my wedding that didn’t support us as a couple 100%, and it does sound like your FBIL does. 

I am sorry your FBIL sucks! 

Post # 5
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303 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

@Kimara:  Agree 100% with SweetartMD.  Your fiancé has to make it clear to his brother that you deserve respect and anything less is unacceptable and will have an impact on their relationship. 

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