- 3 years ago
It’s seems like things can’t go right for us After my fiances car accident we only wanted some peace but that’s not happening thanks to our next door neighbor.
I honestly don’t know how to deal with this, ever since we moved here she was always really nice to us, I noticed she was always knocking on my door and insisting on visiting, I thought it was kinda weird but she was always so helpful, I had a hard time saying no to her. Then I started talking with this other neighbor, I didn’t knew she and my next door neighbor had a fight a few years ago and hated each other, as soon as my next door neighbor noticed that I talked with this other neighbor my nightmare started. I noticed people weren’t talking to me as they used to, I found out later she was talking about me behind my back and turning people against me, at the time I laughed because I honestly don’t care, I don’t know these people, I don’t need to have any sort of relationship with them, I’m polite and that’s all. A few months ago I found candles next to my house, I just threw them in the trash and paid no attention to it, a couple of weeks later I found a weird powder around my house, I thought it was weird because it was red, cleaned the whole thing, it was there again two days later… Recently I found a red candle outside, it was hanging from the wall with rope around it. The other neighbor I talked about told me this was done by my next door neighbor, she’s into witchcraft and all that stuff. I couldn’t help but laugh, I don’t believe in that kind of stuff and decided to ignore it but she continued, I have to pick candles from outside the house constantly, I even took pictures of it to show to a friend. Fast forward to yesterday, I was heading to my car to go to the grocery store and noticed this weird guy trying to get into a neigbors car that was parked, he saw me and ran away, I immediately knocked on the door of the owner of the car but no one was home, I went to check the car to see if everything was okay and noticed there was a key on the door, the car is old which means it only opens with the key, I tried the key and the door opened. When I tried to take the key out I couldn’t, it was stuck, I tried again and the key came out in half, it was broken. I knocked on my neighbors door and he opened it this time, the first time I knocked he was in the back yard, I told him what had happened and he told me he knew the key was broken and stuck on the door, he was planning on taking care of it later. We went outside and he managed to take the rest of the key out, he then thanked me for watching over his car and that was it. Today as I was heading to my car I heard my next door neighbor telling my neighbor I was the one who was trying to break into his car and not some random guy. I lost all control, I confronted her and she turned her back on me, this really pissed me off, she was accusing me of trying to break into a car and when I confronted her she ignored me?? I’ve been under so much stress, I knew I would have a breakdown sooner or later and this was the last straw, I ran after her, she ran away and locked herself inside her house, my neighbor stopped me and calmed me down. I know this was totally childish and I regret the way I acted, I know I should ignore her, I’m just so tired of ignoring everything, it was okay when she talked behind my back, I even ignored the stupid rituals at my door but I couldn’t let her accuse me of something this serious and ignore it too. Any advice on how to deal with this person? Now she’s threatening me with the police, saying she will press charges because I was aggressive towards her, is this for real? I never in my life had any sort of problem with a neighbor and now I find myself in this situation! I suffer from some mental health issues and I’ve had several panic attacks today because of this, I had to take a couple of pills to try to calm down but I’m still so angry, so sad… I’m sorry if what I wrote sounds like a big mess, I can’t even focus to write properly.
- This topic was modified 3 years ago by Pippa28.